Every "space" for butch lesbians online has become insufferable. The butches on tumblr talk incessantly about strap-ons and demand to be called "daddy", they're chin-deep in the kink scene and thrive on sexual abuse. They model themselves after male sexuality and male depravity, use masculine pronouns for themselves, and blab on mindlessly about "dicking down" other women and demanding "blowjobs" from them etc. The butches on Reddit are constantly talking about binding their breasts, amputating their breasts, taking testosterone, growing a "T-dick", attaching an armskin-phallus to their mons pubis, having gender dysphoria, changing their legal names to a male name, changing their legal gender marker to "male", and wanting to boss a submissive housewife. The butches on Twitter are either radfems or equally deep into the male-identified trans/kink/queer daddy dom bullshit. It seems that there's nary a butch community left that doesn't glorify and worship maleness: you have the bepenised men who call themselves butches, and you have the actual butches whose lives somehow still revolve around penis - pretending they have a penis, wishing they had a penis, talking about growing their own penis, dirty-talking about their imaginary penises, ...

I'm getting fucking tired of it. The push on masculine women to transition is getting seriously out of hand. I also feel like these younger butches have an incredibly twisted and warped idea of female masculinity, partly due to the masses of abusive males infiltrating our culture. What has happened to being proud of one's nonconformity? Standing up for other women? Being respectful and protective of other women's characters and integrity? I can't relate to these troubled current or future "transmen" who hate themselves and do everything they can to mimic males and their abusive nature. I just want to wear comfortable clothes, look handsome, talk about feminism and women's culture, and help you carry heavy things. 😑 But it seems that outside of radfem spaces, there's no positive community left for us anymore. I worry what this sinister influence is going to do to so many young women's bodies, minds, and sexuality. I'm so tired. What a dark timeline.