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I'm bi, but I feel like bisexuals aren't my tribe
Bisexuals of Ovarit - does anyone else ever feel painfully, agonizingly out of place with other bi women?
My friend group is absolutely brimming with people who identify as bisexual, both male and female. But every person in that friend group is in a het relationship, and has never had a serious or sexual relationship with a same sex partner. Seriously, two of them have never even gone further than kissing a woman - and the woman they kissed was me, LOL.
I cannot relate to or "mesh" with my bi friends when it comes to relationship or sex talk at all (which, since we're all in our 20s and 30s, are pretty common conversation topics in our group). I don't know if it's because of my feminist leanings, or because I prefer women to men, but I just feel so out of place when we talk anything related to relationships or our sexualities.
They frequently talk about how they'd never date a woman because women are "too much drama" or "too difficult", they talk about how sex with a woman is "gross" or "weird", or how "receiving is okay but giving is icky". Conversations about the bi experience revolve, 24/7, around the agony of being mistaken as straight, or how much easier gays and lesbians have it, or "why are lesbians so mean to us?"
It has reached a point where I actively feel like a self hating bisexual lol because I just don't resonate with these women at all and am honestly trying to avoid making any new friendships with bi women. I even feel hesitant about getting in a relationship with a bi woman (all of my relationships with women have been with lesbians except for two).
Am I being biphobic? Am I an asshole for thinking these women are not actually bi? Are they just more "male aligned" because they aren't feminists? I'm asking honestly, because I don't want to be offensive, but I just feel very much "not at home" with my bi friends and it makes me feel guilty.
"it's not a cult"
"Nobody becomes trans because of the internet" or whatever
Christ, they are all so creepy with comments like this.
Especially because a lot of the commenters are most likely a lot older than OP.
It's seriously so disturbing and disgusting. I actually felt my skin crawling with some of them.
I’ll never understand why TIMs are so eager to “crack eggs”. Misery loves company, I guess.
The filter also gave him plastic surgery on his nose and a brow lift.
And a shaved chin along with other subtler details.
I can’t even tell, are they two separate pictures or did the filter add the open mouth because women MUST have the glazed over eyes and receiving mouth. No wonder the transgender population came marching, it’s their whole philosophy about womanhood right?
Had the same thought, but the angle seems slightly different in the second picture.
So glad someone posted these. Kinda hard for them to beat the groomer allegations when they post comments like these under videos of young men and boys who look vaguely GNC...
the goal is trans ideology is to prey on teenagers and vulnerable people and make them hate theirselves for the body that they have. It is a result within patriarchy as well. They paint transitioning as if you’re becoming a new person, as this is why people rush into it without any thought. If you’re lucky enough, you can see though all of the bullshit lies and tactics that especially the public serves on a plate. I hate having to hide how I really feel about them to save my future from getting ruined (despite feeling empathy for those who have been manipulated, especially young children to teenagers) because even some of the people around me that are sworn friends don’t even understand its fatal flaws
I am out to my friends about my views, but I have to keep my disgust, fury, and head-smacking disbelief at the stupidity of gender ideology in check.
They see themselves as a girl with a filter, get a boner and decide they want to be a woman and get a boner all the time. Think I figured it out
They’re so obsessed with “cracking eggs.” But it’s not a cult, oh no, couldn’t possibly be.
I thought this was just a man with a TikTok makeup filter on (some of those filters seem to be quite advanced now). Is it a man with a makeup filter who is pretending to be a woman? He literally just looks clownish 🤣
Edit: Sorry, didn't read the full title and post, so it is just a dude playing with filters and TiMs came in saying they're beautiful women like the filter of makeup on a man... Bro what 🤣
Girl is when makeup
Yup that's literally the only difference. So what they're really doing is telling a happy dude he's not a dude he's a lady because his face is more feminine featured than most men
Shit guys, I'm a man. I'll just delete my account, now...
Oh wait, politely excusing myself from a space where I'm not welcome is not very manly. Now I'm confused. Someone please tell me what my gender is, I don't know how to act or what clothes to wear!