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wonder if anyone here is in the same boat. i've been chatting with an online friend, she is very kind and is open about being a lesbian. i have started to become bi-curious and wanted to try relationships with women. however, she recently confided in me that she used to be a boy and started HRT when she was a teenager. this struck me as a complete surprise because i've seen 1 picture of her and she seemed to pass and her voice is very feminine. she is classic libfem, "sex work is work", puts her pronouns in her display name, but i still can't help but feel blindsided.

just wanted to vent here, i suppose.

wonder if anyone here is in the same boat. i've been chatting with an online friend, she is very kind and is open about being a lesbian. i have started to become bi-curious and wanted to try relationships with women. however, she recently confided in me that she used to be a boy and started HRT when she was a teenager. this struck me as a complete surprise because i've seen 1 picture of her and she seemed to pass and her voice is very feminine. she is classic libfem, "sex work is work", puts her pronouns in her display name, but i still can't help but feel blindsided. just wanted to vent here, i suppose.

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The picture you saw was almost certainly edited using faceapp or something similar.

I wouldn’t be friends with someone who lied about something like that, especially given the wanting a relationship thing.

It seems to be their fetish, trapping people and tricking them. They don't even try dating each other.

He knows what he's doing and God forbid you get annoyed at him (rightfully so), he'll go post about it and get validation. If he really wanted to be around like minded people he'd just say it straight away to weed out people that don't agree with him. Just curious, when did you tell him you were bi curious? Like straight away?

he's always flirted with me which i'm now seeing that is kind of predatory... and he has mentioned before about how he's so bad and always flirts with straight women... yeah none of this is sounding good now that i'm actually typing it out :/ thanks for the comments everyone

No problem. Block and delete that scrote and don't give him the chance for him to make you feel bad. Sick fuck trying to get you involved in his fetish.

He is a straight man.

If you choose to have a relationship him, you will not be having a relationship with a women. If you are looking for a same sex relationship, i hope you find it one day :)

The timing is very interesting, to the point it feels predatory. If you're feeling blindsided, definitely pay attention to that feeling.

It’s easy to pass in photos. Get the makeup, angles, filter…real life, without all those and with seeing how the body moves, is often a different story

Sorry this happened to you. Better to find this out sooner than later, though.

Sickening, I've never seen one that passes but if it was a single picture no doubt it was edited to all hell. Truthfully they pass better when they neuter themselves at a young age(tragic for them) though.

he told me hasn't had surgery yet but is planning on it, which seems like just my luck: want to date a woman but surprise dick

Yes, I have been in the same boat. Wishing you all the love and solidarity. I’m sorry you have to deal with other people’s bullshit as you’re simply trying to explore your sexuality.

he is a straight man, and very predatory. avoid this person.