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After a whole year of weekly therapy I asked a woman out and it feels so wholesome, natural, and thrilling in the best way!

I self-traumatised myself with sex with men, using it as a means of self harm and pushing myself towards it due to FOMO. A year ago I was in an extremely low place and went to therapy: a lot of it was devoted to sexuality. It's been a tough journey, but I'm now stronger than ever, ready to pursue the future I want.

Last week a friend introduced me to his friend and I met a charming, brilliant woman. She's worth putting myself out there and risking rejection, so i asked her out and I'm so stressed now waiting for an answer.

It's a huge milestone and I'm not ready to share it with anyone in real life (yet) so I'm sharing it with you :)

After a whole year of weekly therapy I asked a woman out and it feels so wholesome, natural, and thrilling in the best way! I self-traumatised myself with sex with men, using it as a means of self harm and pushing myself towards it due to FOMO. A year ago I was in an extremely low place and went to therapy: a lot of it was devoted to sexuality. It's been a tough journey, but I'm now stronger than ever, ready to pursue the future I want. Last week a friend introduced me to his friend and I met a charming, brilliant woman. She's worth putting myself out there and risking rejection, so i asked her out and I'm so stressed now waiting for an answer. It's a huge milestone and I'm not ready to share it with anyone in real life (yet) so I'm sharing it with you :)

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[–] hufflepuff-poet 11 points Edited

Congrats! Whatever her answer, you did an awesome thing by putting yourself out there! Wishing you good vibes and a fun date in the future! :)

Congratulations!! That’s brilliant news!!

Thank you!!! She said yes, and we're going to a museum + cafe date this week :) :)

woooo!!!! nice. remember to take some altoids bc coffee breath ain't it 😂 jk jk

Ah congratulations! Wishing you both so much fun on your date.

Congratulations! Glad to hear she said yes. Feel free to come back and update us about how the date goes!

[–] Hyacinth 2 points Edited

Aw thanks for the wholesome post Goodluck and have a good time!