Feeling too unattractive to be with a woman.

discussionFeeling too unattractive to be with a woman.

Posted December 24, 2023 by [Deleted] in LovingWomen

I have always suffered from low self esteem but, as I come to terms with my attraction to women, I find that this realization is worthless considering my faith in ever being with another women is non-existent.

I’ve been told about my face being pretty several times and, sometimes, I can see what others see… but my main concern is my body. I’m so tall, standing at 5’9, and slightly overweight. The overweight thing doesn’t bother me so much because I’m losing weight nowadays so it’s no issue. But I’m still thicker regardless. Not so much lithe or dainty as my features are more on the larger side.

I’d yearn for a women but I feel as though I’m too unattractive to do so. I don’t know what the post is about or what I want to achieve but feel free to comment about your stories and advice!?

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Posted December 24, 2023 by [Deleted]

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