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questionWhat is your ideal first date?
Posted January 5, 2024 by SortaKinda in LovingWomen

What is your ideal first date? How would you ideally want to be asked out?

9 comments

HEReticJanuary 5, 2024

A beach, picnic, or gardens, something relaxing and outdoors. Very straightforwardly

mathloverJanuary 5, 2024

Coffee. Walk in a local park. Museum. Something where we interact and start to get to know each other better, without having to participate in an activity.

CriminallyCriticalJanuary 5, 2024

It depends if I know her already or not. I think dates focused around one or the others (or both) interests would be fun or doing something neither of us have done. Id prefer activity based dates over dinner or a movie. Preferably its activity + dinner/light meal

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First date? Coffee or drinks for an hour. Brief just to see if we vibe. Eventually wine painting would be fun, and of things we're beginning to feel serious then dancing.

But I'm a bigger fan of the idea of falling into a crush (mutually) with an existing friend or someone within my friend circle. Seems more organic.

DimetrodonJanuary 5, 2024

My ideal first date is just one where we both like each other haha. The specific activity doesn't matter much to me. Though I have seen people suggest going to a museum, art fair, or farmers market for a first date, and those sounded like neat ideas if you wanna do something less common.

TheChaliceIsMightierJanuary 5, 2024

Baseball game. No ideal way to be asked out, I’d just want it to be clear that it is a date lol

Ribbon_RabbitJanuary 5, 2024

Depends on where I initially met her, I think? So it could range from an evening in watching a movie and talking, to going to a barcade to hustle some bar-hopping frat boys. Both were actual dates I've had and were memorable and fun.

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