It's shit like this.

"Aaron" Terell spent her entire life as a heterosexual woman until she transitioned at age 27. At this point she got into a long-term relationship with another woman. To the general public Terell is, and always has always been, viewed exclusively as a straight person. THIS EXPERIENCE DOES NOT REPRESENT ME AS A BISEXUAL WOMAN.

In general, I'm sick and tired of bisexuals who have always dated the opposite sex exclusively trying to suck up to gays and lesbians by telling us how "laughably easy" it is to be bisexual. Speak for your damn self.

On top of that, heterosexual women who date normal men and TIMs, and heterosexual men who date normal women and TIFs, are now claiming to be "bisexual" and shoving bondage and polyamory down everyone's throat. They're pushing bullshit about how "sexuality is fluid" and "lesbians need to try ladydick." It's making the gays and lesbians resent us even more than they already do, and I don't blame them.

If you're a bisexual and feel "privileged," great. I'm really happy for you. But if I weren't bisexual, I never would have been groomed by a 40 year old TIM when I was 15, who targeted me because I was posting on an LGB forum. I never would have been so uncomfortable with the sheer volume of aggressive male objectification I was receiving that I became dysphoric and started identifying as trans. I never would have been subjected to corrective rape or domestic violence from my first boyfriend.

I've dated women. I have relationships with women. I get physical with them. I can't just "go back in the closet and be privileged." My entire family knows I'm bi. They've met my past girlfriends. My friends know I'm bi. And on top of that, I'm currently dating a man and I still get called a lesbian by strangers because I just "seem gay." Not all of us can just lie about our orientation while dating someone of the opposite sex and "be privileged."

Anyway I just had to vent. Thank you for reading. No hate in the comments please, I am not able to argue about my "privilege" anymore. Bisexual men experience discrimination both from straight women who avoid dating them due to homophobia, and gay men who have difficulty trusting bisexuals. And in addition to being mistrusted by lesbians, bisexual women have the opposite problem from bisexual men. We are stalked, raped, and battered by men at alarming rates.
But while we face these unique difficulties, the world tells us we're "privileged," and biphobia is treated like a joke. Well I'm sick of it. I'm also sick of being pressured into dating TIMs because "you're bisexual, you have no excuse" and "they're the best of both worlds." No, they're fucking not. Why would I date a 6'4" smelly unwashed "woman" who dresses like a child with a receding hairline and no pussy??? Are you fucking kidding me? You dare call this the "best of both worlds"??

Anyway keep your chin up ladies. A brighter day is dawning. Every day new studies are published and we understand the unique lives and challenges of bisexuals a little better.

(Note: I am specifically not complaining about lesbians and gay men who may have negative feelings toward bisexuals. I know our image has been completely ruined, to you. I understand, and I don't blame you for mistrusting us now. I only hope I can do my part to help repair the damage that has been done to your community, in our name. Real bisexuals aren't "kinky" polyamorous hetero TRA cheaters who will show up demanding threesomes and/or "miss the dick" and leave you for a man. I hate threesomes and I've never left anyone for a man. I'm just as frustrated as you, over the trainwreck the so-called "bisexual community" has become. I just want to show people the truth.)