I just saw "(non-binary, any pronouns are fine)" in a professional bio. I stared at the screen like 😐😐😐 for a full minute. She literally has blue hair. There's nothing about her that makes her sex remotely not apparent.
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I spit my tea out.
Edit to add because it fits well here:
I just saw "(non-binary, any pronouns are fine)" in a professional bio. I stared at the screen like 😐😐😐 for a full minute. She literally has blue hair. There's nothing about her that makes her sex remotely not apparent.
I would be tossing her resume.
She has a cushy job at a major U.S. academic institution. Sigh.
aaarrrgggghhhhhh!!!
Of course she does....