Need advice about attending Pride events (or general gay events)

questionNeed advice about attending Pride events (or general gay events)

Posted June 29, 2024 by dragonheartJK is my bae 💖 in LovingWomen

So, I'm planning on attending a couple of Pride parties because I'd like to spend some time with fellow lesbians and gays and maybe meet some new friends etc. However, these spaces are very pro-trans and have anti-woman propaganda everywhere.

I feel isolated right now and don't want to shut myself off from meeting other gay people but I also feel uneasy about being around all the hatred for women. I was just wondering how other people here feel about attending these kinds of events? It's not just Pride but any wlw space in general which also panders to genderspecials.

Do you refuse to attend these types of things? Or do you attend them and just greyrock TIMs and TRA types?

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Committing_Tervery

January 12, 2024

I wish she would sue all these scrotes into poverty.

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Posted June 29, 2024 by dragonheartJK is my bae 💖

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