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I love her so much
I just want to (quietly and anonymously) shout on here how much I love my gf. She's brilliant. Intelligent and clever and talented and funny and compassionate and romantic and brave and sexy as hell.
I don't believe in soulmates; I think the concept is silly.
She makes me believe in soulmates.
We'll have been together eight months at the end of January, which is a short amount of time, but she's lit up the past year and I'll never be able to adequately express how much I love her, for her being her. (I wanted to post this on /o/lesbians, as she is one, but I'm bi, and I absolutely respect their space.)
Anyways. My heart is full of her every day. 💗
😭😭😭 thank you--I needed some hope today.
So happy for you both 💗💗
aw, thank you. Everything™ is Too Much right now, so I get it. Keep that hope. 💗
This is so sweet 🥺
I really do love her. This feeling is so wonderful it's borderline ridiculous...but it isn't. 🥰
This warms my heart. I love that you value her bravery, it's such an amazing quality for someone to have. Mazel tov!
Yay! So happy for you two.
Thank you! I'm so happy it feels like it must be mildly insulting to everyone else. 🤣
No way, dude! Sure, it's cheesy, not gonna lie, lol, but you expressing your happiness is everything we need in these hard times. It really made me smile 😊 congrats!
Not at all, I'm glad things worked out for you. It's good to know this sort of thing still happens.
Everything about this post melted my heart - right down to you respecting the lesbian space
I wish I felt that way about my partner. I absolutely don't believe we're soulmates; we're so incompatible in so many ways. I'm better off living with him and splitting bills/having him help with certain things I can't do because of my disability, and just having someone around in my life to not be lonely, but the amount of housework I have to do following him around, cleaning up the crumbs and splashes he doesn't notice, etc., is so fucking unattractive. He doesn't wash the dishes properly so I end up throwing them in the dishwasher anyway. If I ever bring up anything I want him to improve on, he acts like a kicked dog, is snappy and mean for a period of time and never works on it. He is also unemployed. Argh! I wish I was a lesbian. Women are cleaner and more put together, and they actually aren't afraid of using lotion because it's "gay." Life sucks.
I wish I was a lesbian
You don't have to be a lesbian to date women, and if you were a lesbian, you'd still be you. It's not a magical solution, and a lot of lesbians are single/lonely. Just dump him if you don't like him that much. Spend your time investing in someone else who will help you.
Yes, but I am not sure if I am even bisexual. I find women attractive in many ways, physically and mentally, but I don't know that I find them attractive sexually? It confuses me.
At the end of the day, nobody can answer this question but you. However, having a crush/being drawn to someone and finding them objectively attractive isn't the same as sexual attraction.
A little bit TMI, but my body responds to women. Moving through the world, I view them exactly the same as I do men in terms of attraction/compatibility.
I echo the original reply to your comment; dating women isn't a magical solution. I had a gf in the past who was one of the messiest people I'd ever met, lol. Have a direct conversation with your partner. I've been there (haven't we all?) and nothing will change unless you address it. If it doesn't change, maybe you need to make a change. 💗
Would you consider finding a friend to live with as a roommate? If he's unemployed and not even helping financially aside from splitting bills, it sounds like a decent roommate would probably involve a lot less hassles for you. I know it's not always that simple and easy, but it sounds like this relationship has very little benefit to you. It's just adding to your daily housework.
SIs you need to go febfem!! That sounds terrible, you deserve so much better!!
You're right. If I found a woman I could love I might pursue her if she was interested.
I know it's hard to meet women, especially when guys are hounding you like they always do with bisexual females. But it's so worth it.
Yes! throws rose petals I'm so happy for you! Congrats!