13
biBisexuals: Do you essentially want similar or different qualities in men and women?
Posted September 11, 2024 by velvetpaws in LovingWomen

By qualities I mean anything from physical characteristics to personality traits - anything you deem salient, really.

9 comments

blibberinghumdingerSeptember 11, 2024

Looks wise I have a thing for androgyny. The type of men I like are ones that most straight people would perceive as feminine. Smaller body, not too muscular, not too hairy, softer jawline, more delicate features. Personality wise I like men who aren't loud, who don't have a huge ego, who have more "feminine" interests like cooking or gardening vs sports.

For women it's the same, I prefer androgynous/masculine leaning women. I have a harder time being attracted to a woman who's too feminine. Unlike with men though, I don't mind if a woman has a big ego or is loud and opinionated. It hits way different when it's a woman who thinks she's hot shit vs when it's a man.

I'm 4B at this point though. I've yet to meet a man who doesn't become unattractive to me at some point after getting to know him.

WitchPleaseSeptember 11, 2024

I like tomboys and men with naturally more delicate features - short, more on the skinny side, and not so manly mannerisms. Liking delicate men had made a lot of people tell me I'm a closeted lesbian, which is so annoying because men with delicate features are men, and I like them, therefore I'm not a lesbian. I'd say it's similar, in the sense I like both on the androgenous/GNC side. I don't really know how to describe what I like in terms of personality. It's usually more like how people express some personality trait rather than the trait itself that attracts me.

TheChaliceIsMightierSeptember 11, 2024

Personality traits I look for pretty similar. Physical traits I like masculine men (broader shoulders, nice arms, narrower waist) and feminine women (softer, I like waist and hips). Hence bisexuality.

VeneficcaSeptember 12, 2024

Internally, yes, the same qualities. However, I've always had very different types in men and women from coloring to build. That said, I've been attracted to a range of people/looks/personalities.

PussyWillow1984September 13, 2024

To be honest, I am just scared to commit. Women are more attractive in all facets. I can find a man attractive sometimes, but it would be difficult for me to pin it down to one thing or another.

spinningintellectSeptember 11, 2024

"Be nice to me" is my main requirement, irrespective of sex.

Lemonade_MasqueradeSeptember 11, 2024

I like what I like regardless of the sex of the person. Sex has just always been pretty irrelevant in who I find attractive. Physically, I find people who are effortlessly androgynous to be very alluring. Personality wise, I tend to like softness, gentleness, and humor.

memyselfandi31yrsOctober 27, 2024

Similar. I like it when a woman is very feminine looks wise, and ive been physically attracted to males who have a cutesy look. I am a face person, a person has to have a cute and symmetrical face for me to be attracted to them. I don't mind someone being chubby but the face usually has to be on point, and the person has to meet my looks threshold.

[Deleted]October 4, 2024