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ventFreshly single and tearing my hair out
This is just my little grumble about trying to date women. Sorry, it’s all been said many times before here, I’m just moaning 😅
I’m a freshly single Bi woman. My last relationship (4 and a half years) was with a man - it wasn’t so good towards the end.
I recently downloaded a dating app. I’m only really interested in dating women from now on (I’ve always been more attracted to women than to men) but almost every woman in my age range (25 - 35) I come across has either pronouns in her bio (the fuck does she/they even mean?) or a flare for LGBTQMNOP+ rights 🙄 oh and of course, the obligatory obvious dudes and their ladycocks 🤮
I’ve read many rants about this here and I’m sure they’ll be many more - I just wanted a little whine about trying to find a girlfriend when gender nonsense is everywhere 🙄
Does anyone have any recommendations for female only dating apps?
My beloved father called me a bitch once. Only once. He's been dead for 7 years now. It still cuts.
I think he regretted it as soon as he saw the word land. His regret didn't change the fact that when I was being stubborn and outspoken (like my brother was constantly), that's the word that came to him.
Bitch.
My mom, who was not verbally abusive at all, said I was "being a bitch" once when I was 15. I was so upset, I cried and cried. She later asked what was wrong and I told her and she apologized and never did it again. It hurts, it's nothing to be proud of.
For a real woman, this encounter would be terrifying. But for a TIM, it's "tee hee so validating!!"
He can laugh it off and say it's validating because he knows he isn't in any legitimate danger.
Man, who lives the lie that he's a woman and expects everyone else to accommodate that, gets annoyed when another man lies to him.
Misogyny is empowering to these fuckheads.
Before I stopped using the word, I used it almost exclusively on men. Lmao@this man getting euphoria from it
Yeah, I refuse to use the B or C word, but I reserve the right to continue to use "slut/slutty" which I use exclusively on males. (And it really fits... I mean, so many men are major sluts who are led around by their penis and will sleep with anyone. The word was wasted when used on women.)
"she he called me"
One way or the other, that has to be misgendering.
r/mtf
I got called a
bitch for the first time today for calling out a man lying to me.
I had moved something that I needed from one side to the other side where I was working.
As I was just about to get where I was working, a man jumped out of nowhere and asked if he could have the thing I needed.
I explained, no, I'm using it myself.
Then he lied to me and claimed he had just moved it over himself and started to get aggressive about it.
I knew he hadn't, and I won't suffer bullshit like that, so I told him "no you didn't, I just moved it here"
He then starts getting aggressive and I tell him "if it means that much to you take it, it's just a thing, sort your life out"
She he called me "you fucking
bitch " and walked off in a huff.
I think it's hilarious personally.
The thing is, if I hadn't moved the thing myself just two seconds before, I would've let him take it, but because he lied to me thinking I'd be nice, nope. No deal.
Feel kinda proud to be called a
bitch lol
The "She he" typo is curious. I really do feel like once you start doing wrong pronouns you get all messed up. It's like a stroop test.
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Or it really happened but he was called a male slur and changed it to make himself feel validated.
That's what I thought when I read it. Definitely don't believe it really happened. Or maybe it was a very different interaction that he then edited for clout.
Men call each other this slur all the time in an attempt to emasculate each other. Still doesn't make any of them women.