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Intimate Partner ViolenceMaking Excuses, Even After Death
Posted January 25, 2021 by [Deleted] in NameTheProblem

I recently learned that an abusive ex died. I hadn't really thought about him in decades, but I kept seeing people we used to know remembering him fondly, glowingly even. That made me feel weird. I do not have good memories of our time together. Then I heard that he may have committed suicide and that one of the things he was dealing with was a domestic violence charge and substance abuse.

So he hadn't changed. And his memorial page is full of adulation. I wonder how the victim of his violence feels. Worse than me probably and I don't feel very good.

It just makes me think how we will take any opportunity, even death, to rehabilitate terrible men, make any excuse for their appalling behaviors when all a woman has to do is say "I believe women are women" and their reputation is ruined.

Men are still objects of worship in this world. I hate it.

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