
This is a radical feminist circle dedicated to recording and exploring the global phenomenon of male violence.
Please be aware of readers' sensitivities when you post to this circle.
Flair your post according to the type of violence it features. This is so that readers can avoid particular kinds of material.
While we acknowledge that violence perpetrated by trans-identified males is male violence, these incidents are more appropriate for o/thisneverhappens.
FACTS
RULES
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General Guidelines: Posts should document male violence. Use descriptive titles when submitting links and text posts. Avoid vague titles, clickbait titles, and editorializing. If you're linking to a news article or blog, make the title of your submission the title of the article or blog posts, or at least begin with it. Clear titles help people avoid posting duplicate topics.
NAMALT/Whataboutery: This circle does not accept arguments that predicated on the idea that 'not all men' commit crimes or that women commit crimes too. We know that not all men commit crimes and that some women do. We also know all the available proof indicates that men commit the majority of violent crime in every country of the world and in every historical period.
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This circle was originally inspired by the now defunct tumblr blog nametheproblem.com
RECOMMENDED READING
If you are experiencing/at risk of male violence you may find these books useful:
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin de Becker
Coercive Control: How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life by Evan Stark
GET HELP
Look here to find support for victims of male violence in your region.
QUOTES
Domestic violence against women by men is “caused” by the misuse of power and control within a context of male privilege. Male privilege operates on an individual and societal level to maintain a situation of male dominance, where men have power over women and children. Domestic violence by men against women can be seen as a consequence of the inequalities between men and women, rooted in patriarchal traditions that encourage men to believe they are entitled to power and control over their partners.
Perpetration of serious violence and crime is in fact the most distinctive sex difference there is, cross-culturally.
The male-female difference in perpetrators of violent crime is about 10 to 1, consistent across every state in the United States, and true of every country for which such data are available…The overwhelming maleness of violence is so pervasive in every human society that it is typically not even recognized as such; it is the ocean in which we swim.
Fathers, stepfathers, brothers, uncles, men, boys. Name the Problem, FFS.
And I love how this entire article is written as an attempt to downplay the horror of the grooming gangs (who, I would bet any money, are almost always also family abusers), in addition to being an exercise in obfuscation on behalf of mankind. I cannot detect a shred of care for the women and girls who suffer the atrocity of sex abuse, in whatever male form it manifests.
There was an excellent report from the Muslim Women's Network showing that many family members were targeted by relatives who were also grooming other vulnerable women and girls - and not just Muslims, but Sikh and other groups also. Abusers are likely to start close to home, and then expand their networks, I suspect.
It did nothing to dent the Tommy Robinson et al's position that this was targeted violence against non-Muslim women. The far-right who appropriated the crimes to set themselves up as defenders of white womanhood.
There is never any care for victims as themselves, only for their usefulness whatever narrative that men want to create about other men. #YesAllMen
All this. Right-wing men and left-wing men are determined to make it about race, because Goddess forbid we put sex under the microscope.
EDIT: That clown TR has been raging against "bitter, misandrist, dried-up" women in response to an article about the projected 45% of women who will be single and childless by 2030. Of course he hates women, like all self-appointed "protectors of white womanhood". Because, just like the Muslim grooming gangs he rails against, and just like TRAs, women aren't people to him, but an idea in his head. And when we, multifaceted humans that we are, fail to conform exactly to that idea, we earn his rancour.
yeah i've seen this before. One article naming men as 'parents' as ones purposely creating CSAM, while focusing on the reasons the small number of mothers do it. 🤦🏾♀️