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RageThe Silence
Despairing and can't explain my feelings about the banality of evil in society.
Diddy, Epstein, Pélicot, Child abusers, Domestic abusers, sex traffickers, women imprisoned in basements, the list goes on and on and on and on
ALL of the cases we hear about are surrounded by dozens to 1000s of people who knew violent exploitative abuse was going on, yet .. silence.
How many more children's and women's screams are still being smothered by this insidious cloak of evil?
This is a radical feminist circle dedicated to recording and exploring the global phenomenon of male violence.
Please be aware of readers' sensitivities when you post to this circle.
Flair your post according to the type of violence it features. This is so that readers can avoid particular kinds of material.
While we acknowledge that violence perpetrated by trans-identified males is male violence, these incidents are more appropriate for o/thisneverhappens.
FACTS
RULES
Please make sure you've read the the Sitewide Rules and Sitewide Guidelines as well as the circle-specific rules below.
General Guidelines: Posts should document male violence. Use descriptive titles when submitting links and text posts. Avoid vague titles, clickbait titles, and editorializing. If you're linking to a news article or blog, make the title of your submission the title of the article or blog posts, or at least begin with it. Clear titles help people avoid posting duplicate topics.
NAMALT/Whataboutery: This circle does not accept arguments that predicated on the idea that 'not all men' commit crimes or that women commit crimes too. We know that not all men commit crimes and that some women do. We also know all the available proof indicates that men commit the majority of violent crime in every country of the world and in every historical period.
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This circle was originally inspired by the now defunct tumblr blog nametheproblem.com
RECOMMENDED READING
If you are experiencing/at risk of male violence you may find these books useful:
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin de Becker
Coercive Control: How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life by Evan Stark
GET HELP
Look here to find support for victims of male violence in your region.
QUOTES
Domestic violence against women by men is “caused” by the misuse of power and control within a context of male privilege. Male privilege operates on an individual and societal level to maintain a situation of male dominance, where men have power over women and children. Domestic violence by men against women can be seen as a consequence of the inequalities between men and women, rooted in patriarchal traditions that encourage men to believe they are entitled to power and control over their partners.
Perpetration of serious violence and crime is in fact the most distinctive sex difference there is, cross-culturally.
The male-female difference in perpetrators of violent crime is about 10 to 1, consistent across every state in the United States, and true of every country for which such data are available…The overwhelming maleness of violence is so pervasive in every human society that it is typically not even recognized as such; it is the ocean in which we swim.
Male silence is deafening. But we women aren’t stupid, we hear it.
The west could go Taliban and western men would be like 👀 🫣
They PAY to hurt us. The more vulnerable and the more potential to hurt, the higher the price.
I’m with you. I feel despair. 😩 time for another Therapist Visit (thank god for my decent therapist).
My only suggestion is to get together with some sensible girlfriends if you have them. Just for a night of socializing and sanity. Xoxo