I think it's taking time for our users to adjust to the new circles, but - obviously not OP - anyone else, please feel free to direct male crime/violence stories to o/NameTheProblem. That's where evil men belong.
Please don't apologize for having boundaries on what hurts your heart Samurai 💛 (FYI there might be some of those on /o/Radfemmery, I'm mod there and I'm pretty sure I've posted similar stuff).
Good suggestion and no need to apologize for sensitivity! You're entitled to your feelings.