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[Deleted]April 30, 2021
The worst part is, I'm sure they went home to Reddit to talk about how the lesbians in attendance "had no idea" they were men even though they totally did, but the social conditioning of women to be polite is incomprehensible to them.
Or if they were aware, how mean, discriminatory, bigoted and phobic they were.
Just like I’d say if I barged into a black space and they were less than welcoming, but still polite. And I were a racist narcissist.
That last part is important.
momofreyrellaApril 30, 2021
That sucks you had to play musical tables to get away from the men at a lesbian event.
kickinitwithmydawgApril 30, 2021
If they came up to me in this context to get a date or hook up....I don't know what I'd do because I'd be so pissed off. If I actually spoke up, would the TIMs lodge a complaint to remove me from this group? If I'm not removed and they are, will they lodge a complaint with FB or what ever server is hosting the group and have them removed for transphobia? I think you probably did the best think possible, ignore and avoid. If the whole group feels the same way then they won't come back. I think what would be worse is having handmaidens in the group asking why we are being so mean....I'd leave if that happened.
SunkisedApril 30, 2021
Removed from group and called a transphobe is most likely. I worry about the police getting involved.
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SunkisedMay 1, 2021
They advertised as LGBTQIA+. The women who recommended them said they have big turn outs and it was pretty fun
CherryMay 2, 2021
Men just have an energy that's soo identifiable. You can always tell when someone is a trans identifiable man because they never pass, but aside form just appearance they will always have an energy that's overwhelmingly off-putting to lesbians. Why? Oh yeah, because we aren't attracted to men.
SunkisedMay 2, 2021
That's a really good point. It is some kind of aura or energy that we can just sense.
ActualWendyMay 1, 2021
I hope things go well with the women you met. Despite the TIMs, sounds like the evening was a success.
"Keep to themselves" ....yeah that's the fucking opposite of crashing a meet up for w o m e n .
She tells herself that this opinion is "inclusive" and that she is not a terf. She has probably said many times that TWAW.
I fear for her.