How are there even more videos now, my god....

Yes, I saw her second video.

She is not a perfect victim, very few people are and even they rarely get justice. I do think a lawyer would have advised her against uploading that second video. She provided a lot of screenshots that she then left open to interpretation and the comment section is running with the worst scenarios possible.

I also absolutely hate how gleeful these men are, who didn't believe her from the start because all women lie about rape blah blah, and are now taking the second video as confirmation that they're right. Shaming and blaming other people who had the audacity to believe a woman that she was assaulted, when statistically speaking ... it's more likely true than not.

From the evidence she provided, it sounds like she wanted more but didn't want it to be an affair. But even if she expressed "lust" or whatever at some point that does mean that she consented to what happened in those two nights. I am also frankly baffled by the amount of people who interpret her saying "I'm not having sex without lube" as her wanting to have sex with him and not as her trying to discourage him from penetrating her. Also, also, the amount of people who claim that Daniel offering to pay her mid-assault and her saying she could do that implies consent, when from the context she gave I thought it was clear that she was trying to stop him under the guise of discussing payment first? Also: in what world does this scenario make him look good and not extremely boundary-crossing and gross?! I am so tired of women being portrayed as these omnipotent seductresses and the men are their poor little victims who fought against temptation but eventually just HAD to give in. The sheer amount of abuse and rape myths in her comment section ... Baffling. Why didn't she leave, why didn't she say no, why didn't she fight back, why is she only talking about it now, why did she still text him, how was he supposed to know that she didn't want it ... Like, I'm sorry, but I think at some point these porn-brained men need to be held accountable for allegedly not knowing what enthusiastic consent and participation looks like.

I think what's happening in her comment section right now is the same thing we've seen on a much larger scale with women like Amber Heard, Blake Lively, Meghan Markle, Rachel Zegler, etc etc. I think they all have their faults, but the way people on the internet hated them, humiliated them and enjoyed tearing them apart, men and women alike, was simply not proportionate. And in Heard's, Lively's and Markle's cases, the men involved were all portrayed as these poor little fools who didn't know any better and were manipulated by these evil witches. It's ridiculous and I think it's also very concerning how much everyone enjoys these witch hunts. Like, people downloading the second video in case she deletes it so they can "send it to Daniel's lawyers"??? What the actual fuck?

Sorry for the rant. It's frustrating.

Plus, I think so much tone and context gets lost in text messages, so yeah, as you said, to claim that one personal interpretation of a text message is factual is silly.