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[Deleted]September 27, 2024(Edited September 27, 2024)

Isnt it funny I remember adult men freaking out at the idea of talking about ‘women’s problems’ (for example my psycho father used to throw a fit if he could see my towels in the bathroom bin.)

Now women have done the important work of destigmatised the experience on the internet and men suddenly want to be involved?

Get toxic shock syndrome moids.

faerieberrySeptember 27, 2024

“there’s no medical need to even have a period” I mean it shows that you’re capable of getting pregnant, so that’s helpful? Also I skip mine most of the time by taking my BC pills continuously, but eventually it’ll still happen! Like if it’s been a few months since I last had a period, I’ll start spotting and it doesn’t go away until I stop my pills for a week or so and let it take its course… “no medical need” yeah okay LOL that’s just what my female body does

CryingInYourInbox [OP]September 27, 2024

Yea the Handmaids are big mad that women have learned -after two thousand years- about the different phases and they're really scrambling all over X trying to make it seem uncool and problematic to mention periods now because they know it hurts male feelings.

I think it's perfectly acceptable to mystify and romanticize menstruation.

"Oh it's just a bodily function!"

Like that was ever a fucking option.

PracticalMagicSeptember 27, 2024

Hi I used to bleed for a week every 28.days without being wounded and I did not die! Science reassures us that it's not magic or anything but it sure is special to us HUMAN females, who IIRC are the only ones that do it.

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jelliknightSeptember 28, 2024

No they go into heat.

We are one of very few species who menstruate. We ovulate covertly (males on the same species cant tell), and instead have obvious times of extremely low fertility. Both of those are very rare, and the combination is genuinely unique and miraculous. And while our fertile periods are hidden, they are still knowable to the woman herself, fertility awareness methodsare proven to be as effective as the pill.

Put that together with the fact the we are conscious and one of the very few species whose fertility cycle length aligns with the moon and the spiritual meaning is revealed.

Whether by evolution or divine intervention, this combination exists to allow for conscious conception driven entirely by women's active choice.

Our menstruation also improves our health (we accumulate less forever chemicals and heavy metals than males because we replace a portion of blood monthly)

ViolaDworkin devoteeSeptember 27, 2024

Dogs go into heat, which is not the same as a menstrual cycle. Menstruation is actually pretty uncommon outside of primates. It happens in some bats, the elephant shrew, and the Egyptian Spiny Mouse.

PracticalMagicSeptember 27, 2024

Ok well ours are cooler.

Painful and a pain, but I'm a big fan of how incredible it is that we have them.

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SonnetSeptember 27, 2024

No one ever has to reproduce for any reason, but I think it’s hilarious that these guys have successfully brainwashed themselves into losing the plot that human sex evolved for sexual reproduction. They routinely forget to include all reproductive function in the basic function of the reproductive organs, it’s wild.

Because no one has to reproduce…and some people can’t reproduce…then it would be rhetorically equivalent to say that purely cosmetic organs are fully functional and fully functional organs have no meaningful function at all…right??

LapisLazuliSeptember 27, 2024

☝🤰100%!

GracieMSeptember 27, 2024

I’ve always had a period and am not technically capable of getting pregnant- so it doesn’t technically show that all the time. At best it means that in theory.

A 40 year old will still have a period for 10+ years but best chance might only be 1-2% chance of pregnancy (which is really really low, it’s 30% in fertile young women).

faerieberrySeptember 27, 2024

Oh I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to be insensitive! And didn’t know those numbers either, that’s really interesting and I had no idea

in_her_bonesSeptember 27, 2024(Edited September 27, 2024)

Its actually very medically necessary to have a period if you're not on HBC.

The uterine lining thickens up over the course of the menstrual cycle and if that build up isn't expelled, the build up of cells/tissue could lead to an increased risk of cancer. That and if you aren't having periods you aren't ovulating, which has all sorts of fertility and hormonal imbalance implications.

FWIW, I'm not a pharmacists or a medical professional, but my understanding is part of how some HBC's work is they prevent the uterine lining from thickening up, or as quickly. This prevents a fertilised egg from attaching, but also removes the need for a period as frequently, or ever. I used to stack the pill back to back, but I still needed to have a withdrawal bleed every 3 months or I'd start spotting.

sunbucketSeptember 27, 2024

What's the rationale here on there's no medical need to have a period?

"Bleeding women just making it hard for themselves on purpose. If you purchase and take hormones all the time like us you don't even have to worry about a period and you can focus on your true purpose of being sexually available to men at all times"

LionessSeptember 27, 2024

If you purchase and take hormones all the time like us you don't even have to worry about a period and you can focus on your true purpose of being sexually available to men at all times"

This this this this. I swear how much they shove birth control off on young women, especially under 21, is just a male conspiracy to make as many young women sexually available as possible, without worrying about pregnancy.

VestalVirginSeptember 27, 2024

I've always refused hormonal birth control (had several people try to persuade me to take it for high testosterone levels which lead to hairyness and acne, which ... yeah, those aren't nice, but you know what's even less nice? Thrombosis, is what), and am now at an age where I think it isn't recommended to take it at all.

I'd theoretically be interested in not having periods for a while, but it'd have to be something safer than this.

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 28, 2024

I've refused birth control as well. I don't need it and didn't want to mess up my body's natural cycles unless I absolutely had to.

a_shrubSeptember 28, 2024

without worrying about pregnancy

Except that it's not 100% effective. 99% effective still means ~1 pregnancy per 100 instances of sex with BC, where the BC is expected to have stopped it.

CryingInYourInbox [OP]September 27, 2024

Yea I actually think that's exactly what their point is, with a side of "pump yourself full of unnecessary hormones so that TIMs can equate themselves to you even more!"

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 27, 2024

"there's no medical need to have a period" like there's no medical need to, I don't know, sleep? Or cry if something gets in your eyes?

I have a female body, and part of its general function is menstruation each month. I don't know what they think "medically necessary" means, but I'm not going to stop any normal healthy function in my body, even when it's inconvenient or annoying.

CryingInYourInbox [OP]September 27, 2024

TRAs don't really have the best track record with "medically necessary" anyways

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 27, 2024

Lmao truer words were never spoken

SonnetSeptember 27, 2024

TIMs can’t menstruate, so if you die of sepsis… meh.

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 27, 2024

I'm really sorry but I've read your comment multiple times and I don't understand it. Obviously TIMs can't menstruate Where does sepsis come into it?

VestalVirginSeptember 27, 2024

Perhaps regarding young girls who don't start periods?

Cause apparently there's a condition where the hymen covers the whole vaginal opening, so the menstrual blood can't come out, and if that's left untreated, that might lead to sepsis.

So yeah. It is not like "if you don't have a period, you're guaranteed to die!" ... BUT no menstruation at an age where there should be one is a symptom that something could be wrong, and you'd better find out what that is.

kuzcos_poisonSeptember 27, 2024

Sure, maybe this is what she meant. That makes sense.

LionessSeptember 27, 2024

If those scrotes bled every month they’d have free products on every street corner, a guaranteed paid week off work every month, and it would be a fashion statement to free bleed.

Fuck off men. I bleed every month proudly and there isn’t shit you can do about it.🩸

BeachBleachSeptember 27, 2024

Gloria Steinem once wrote an essay called If Men Could Menstruate, and it's classic. Talking about how men would be macho about it and brag about their flow.

SonnetSeptember 27, 2024

Every time I see MtFs trying to appropriate menstruation (of all things) I am like “thank god they aren’t smart enough not to say this out loud.”

HyadesSeptember 27, 2024(Edited September 27, 2024)

What is "over identifying"? It sounds like they're making up more nonsense to excuse their misogyny. Translates as: How dare you accept your female body!

They assume that since they hate their bodies, every woman is required to as well. Any time a woman is comfortable with her body, it makes them squirm, because their idea of a woman is someone who is always unsure not confident in herself. It's obvious they hate women when they tell women to shut up about their lived experience and dismiss normal female bodily functions as "unnecessary". Ironic, considering how much they shriek about "body positivity".

Edit: Let me take some time to "over identify" with my period. I hate my period, but it's a part of my life I have to live with, and I accept that. You can accept something without liking it, moreover without mutiliating your body. It's this shaming of the female body that is the reason why periods are deplorably under-researched. It's why it's 2024 and still no medical source can tell me why, for example, my menstrual cycle causes insane cramps in my knees instead of the place most people have it around their abdomen.

001HeartSeptember 28, 2024

What is "over identifying"? It sounds like they're making up more nonsense to excuse their misogyny. Translates as: How dare you accept your female body!

When women proudly identify with what biologically exclude moids, they can't handle it 😌

crodishSeptember 28, 2024(Edited September 28, 2024)

I hate my period, but it's a part of my life I have to live with, and I accept that. You can accept something without liking it, moreover without mutiliating your body.

I feel this 100%. When I read about other women being all moon goddess in awe about their own periods I'm like alright go you I guess

I had a period (pun) where my ED caused my periods to completely stop and my doctor then chewed me out for admitting being glad I was missing my period, saying it was important for a lot of stuff that I don't remember now. Regulation of hormones or some shit and whatever. That bleeding as intended was a sign of being healthy. I've just kind of... grudgingly accepted it. I still hate it, mine are heavy as shit with a ton of clots and I always, ALWAYS end up bleeding through or staining something and doing laundry, but... "it's a sign things are working, I guess" is how I feel about it.

And knowing what I know now about all the health issues that come with removing the uterus before menopause and stuff, yeah.

TLDR don't fix what ain't broke