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Okay. And Iâll go one step further for this gendy: I donât care what you âidentifyâ as. Full stop. It makes no difference to me what your self-appointed ID is. Just like I donât care if the dude on the corner identifies as Emperor Napoleon, Lord of the Lentils-of-Puys. His self appointed title means nothing - just like a man (or woman) self-identifying into another sex class. I am honest about this, but trans people prefer to lie. They know they canât really ID in/out of their sex class, and transwo-men use and abuse their male privilege all the damn time. Itâs not a secret.
So as for you, Mr/Ms/Whatever. Your self-appointed title of Baron Munchausen-upon-Sex-Pest matters not. Do you produce large gametes? If so, congrats - youâre a chick. Small gametes? Then thou art a dude. Your sexuality is merely a description of whether or not you find being female/male as a bare minimum requirement for a romantic relationship. So long as everyoneâs a consenting adult, nothing else matters. Now begone, and go back to whatever hellhole spawned you.
crispycherrypieDecember 6, 2022
I assume this person views lesbianism as an aesthetic and not a sexuality.
[Deleted]December 6, 2022
"More than wlw" - the hell? Is lesbian a cool word now and everyone wants to be classified as one? As for the "cooler and sexier" transwoman, WTF.
This is really the head eating the tail, isn't it.
Apricot_IbexDecember 6, 2022
Right?! WLW is the very definition of lesbian. âNon-womenâ aka men have nothing to do with lesbians.
I havenât perused the profile too far, but I think OOP is possibly another TIF handmaiden, unfortunately, especially with âT enjoyerâ for a username.
greyDecember 7, 2022
You're right! We are not the same!
If you think you can identify out of being a woman, we are not the same. If you think men can be lesbians, we are not the same. If you think that being a lesbian is anything other than females who are same sex attracted, we are not the same.
When they say you aren't a "real lesbian", they don't mean you don't fit the definition of woman loving women (and yes, you are a woman, even if you don't want to be). What they mean is you are making zero sense because a man can not be a lesbian. You have identified yourself out of your own community.
And honestly, watching this happen over and over to young lesbians really makes me sad.
JeSoPazzaDecember 6, 2022
Apparently (I'm guessing here) this is a she who enjoys T (I take it that's testosterone) but identifies as a he-lesbian... Is this a new ploy to avoid homophobic bullying, terminally confusing the opposition? Or is this a parody? 'I'm a lesbian, yeah, right, but I'm a man who's a lesbian, just as transwomen [
Apricot_IbexDecember 6, 2022
Yes, I think this is a TIF who identifies herself as a âthey/them not-a-woman butch lesbianâ and is on testosterone. đ€Šđ»ââïž
And they say the trans movement is progressive and totally not a reflection of internalized homophobia and misogyny. đ€
And how does that not make them all âdysphoricâ to describe themselves as lesbian?
Women arenât even supposed to discuss periods, pregnancy, or breastfeeding (aka chest feeding) while using the word âwomenâ because itâs so triggering to TIPs, but itâs a-okay when they label themselves âlesbian dudesâ and they/thems? Truly some trans âlogicâ right here.
[Deleted]December 6, 2022
The people on the subreddit honest transgender HAAAAAATEE these women an insane amount, I'd say easily more than us evil terfs. There's a post every week complaining that lesbian TIFs are ruining the movement. Transbians go completely ape shit at them because i guess if these women are lesbians then it's okay to call TIMs straight, the horror! How to possibly get a boner from that!
Apricot_IbexDecember 6, 2022
Ooh, thatâs very interesting. Thatâs got to make the whole transbian facade implode, the TIFs who still recognize that they are lesbian even if they deny they are women.
Imagine transbians calling themselves a âstraight she/hers not-a-manâ or some such. All the AGPs on r/actuallesbians would have a total meltdown. đ Big mask-off moment.
[Deleted]December 6, 2022
I'm guessing that "lesbian dude" indicates queerness and is just identity - a dude lesbian? That can't be real! Brain fry woooo scare the straights! - whereas breast-feeding and periods are actual body things that they find terrifying.
Apricot_IbexDecember 6, 2022
Yeah, itâs like some edgy way to be cooler and more interesting than everyone else, including those boring âcisâ gay people.
I stumbled on another TRA Twitter âthey/themâ who declared âIâm calling out all those crusty Boomer cis lesbian TERFs who think transwomen arenât valid lesbians!â đ Meaning lesbians who arenât attracted to men, so literally all lesbians? Ooookay.
And yep, actual biology probably âtriggersâ them since it still confronts them with reality. But itâs so funny that they can be âhe him they them lesbianâ TIFs or TIMs who talk about âgirldickâ and impregnating women, but we canât talk about our own healthcare without them crying about evil transphobes triggering their dysphoria.
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TerfPersephoneDecember 28, 2022
Letâs be real, the only reason sheâs making that post in the first place is because people arenât finding her âsexierâ. If she had any real self-esteem or fulfilling relationships, she wouldnât be yodeling into the void about how much âcoolerâ she is. This is âIâm not like other girlsâ writ large with a side order of narcissism.
I think these type of people like to collect identities and tally their identities against others as a metric of oppression. She couldn't fathom giving up her lesbianism when she tacked on her trans identity.
Itâs kind of morbidly fascinating from a psychological perspective. Sheâll completely sell out women and throw other lesbians under the bus, but still wants to claim that specific struggle for equal rights as her own. Definitely an identity collector, and of course sheâs âcooler and sexierâ than those boring âcisâ lesbians. đ
Like Pokemon, but infinitely less fun