Can we not use pro-natalist arguments that justify homophobic conclusions? Puberty is just a biological process it has no moral purpose. I haven't "failed" at my puberty because I never want to have kids anymore than any antinatalist or gay or infertile person failed at theirs.
It is literally the process of sexual maturation. Whether you have sex or have children or not has no bearing on the fact that you sexually matured. Stop projecting your hair-trigger insecurities onto plain natural facts. That (lack of) thinking is why society has gotten into its current fucked up state.
It's not a pro-natalist argument and no one thinks you 'failed' at puberty. It isn't really something you can fail at. It's just a process a maturing body hopefully goes through if the person doesn't have any health problems or unnecessary interventions.
Concur that males can never experience male puberty.
Not sure how concerned I am if little sex pests are sterilized.