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The "new" button
Posted February 11, 2021 by NewMa in Suggestions

I come here...a lot. So I often hit the "new" button because it's easier than clicking into the circles, etc.

It'd be really cool if "new" meant "new for circles I'm subscribed to" and not "all posts sorted by new." Because if the ones I don't fit in are having a great day, or someone just likes posting multiple things in a few hour timespan in one of the "irrelevant-to-me" circles, it clogs up Ye Olde Feed. And no one likes clicking into the individual circles, that's kiiind of a time sink.

I know someone will point out how the "new" button works, and before you do, please let me assure you that I am aware of how it works and am suggesting a different use for it.

Alternately there could be a third button. "New (sub'd)" or something like that.

32 comments

LionessMarch 23, 2023(Edited March 23, 2023)

Funny how they mention “can get someone pregnant” but not “can become pregnant”. Almost like they’re putting male bodies as the default and forgetting the main demographic of lesbians or something. 🤔

(But note the people they attempt to threaten can become pregnant… 🤔🤔🤔)

Feminist_UsernameYeasty Euphoria✨💦March 23, 2023

Worryingly, there are probably more men with crossdressing fetishes in the world than there are lesbians total. I've read its anywhere from 3-5% of men. They may actually have the numbers to make themselves the default in all online lesbian spaces at the very least. Pretty sickening

WanderingUterusMarch 23, 2023

People seem to have totally forgotten that we once knew that crossdressing was a pretty common male fetish and that anyone who engaged in it was creepy as hell. Even when I was a little girl, you'd always hear the gossip about who the local creeps were.

GC-rich-sequinsMarch 23, 2023

Part of the problem, I think, could be the reluctance for women to call themselves lesbian.

It should be simple, just like feminism should be simple, but the oppressive heteronormative culture tends to push lesbians to the back, and some privileged lesbians don’t help.

I have witnessed some lesbians say that, short of violent rape, no woman who has slept with a man is allowed (“allowed”) to call herself a lesbian.

So when a man who was married to a woman for twenty years comes out as a gay man, he’s acknowledged as a gay man, but a woman who does the same is discouraged from using the term lesbian.

I have seen women who are only attracted to women refuse to call themselves lesbians because they don’t find men disgusting. Like, they have picked up that, in order to be a lesbian you not only have to be attracted to women, you have to be violently and physically repulsed by men….

So I can’t help but wonder if the numbers are being skewed.

(.. .then again maybe they’re being corrected to by all the “transbians”)

Committing_TerveryMarch 23, 2023

I’m surprised it’s only that much. I feel like their numbers are increasing, at the least.

OwnLyingEyesMarch 23, 2023

They're probably the main demographic in that sub at this point; they keep banning all the real lesbians for being lesbians.

TheChaliceIsMightierDickPocket=/=VagMarch 23, 2023

God this is so true and infuriating… being banned from your own space for being whom that space was intended for.

SpatOutTheKoolaidMarch 23, 2023

The subreddit "true lesbians" for, well, true lesbians only, was run off reddit back in 2020 for being a hate group.

TheChaliceIsMightierDickPocket=/=VagMarch 24, 2023

Men really cannot stand women having lives that don’t revolve around men

AtlasisawomanMarch 23, 2023

This angers me the most

[Deleted]March 23, 2023

Literally only a man would wish an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy on a woman.

TheChaliceIsMightierDickPocket=/=VagMarch 23, 2023

I can say I have never wished that on someone and I hate some people.

FirstdayinhellMarch 23, 2023(Edited March 23, 2023)

i hope whoever downvoted me gets preggers

I hate them so much for saying things like this. Freaking sick man wishing unwanted pregnancy on women like its just a fun little joke because they know that unlike real women, they can never be forced to give birth. They are calling themselves women while constantly making a mockery of actual oppression women face because its nothing to them

BorealForestGC manMarch 23, 2023(Edited March 23, 2023)

And also shows their extreme overreactions to any disagreement.

This guy wishes an unwanted pregnancy on women for downvoting his comment on a website.

EDIT: and more so, he's speaking directly about lesbians. Which means he wants lesbians to be raped and get pregnant as a result. Absolutely disgusting, vile monster.

These men deserve no compassion when this is how they treat others. Compassion and empathy are important, but they go both ways.

DimetrodonMarch 23, 2023

It's so maddening how they try to make it sound like "TERFs" are just a "loud minority of lesbians." Like, in reality, the ones you're calling "TERFs" are the only actual lesbians, and you're kicking them out of their own subreddit...

scriptcroneMarch 23, 2023

I fear, like "literal", the word "actual" is being taken over and losing its meaning.

DimetrodonMarch 23, 2023

It sucks that r/actuallesbians is just called that because r/lesbians is a porn subreddit. r/actuallesbians sounds like it should have been made by radfems who are sick of the nonsense.

Committing_TerveryMarch 23, 2023

r/truelesbians was the GC lesbian subreddit. Unfortunately it was banned for excluding males. I wish lesbians still had it as a refuge.

DimetrodonMarch 23, 2023

Yeah, all lesbian subreddits either get banned or invaded by TIMs. The one "cis lesbian" subreddit there is has less than 100 members. :(

I have no idea how "transbians" are so ignorant to the way they're hurting real lesbians. It shouldn't be difficult to see that attraction is based on biological sex. And yet they deny that reality so they can feel validated as women.

mathloverMarch 23, 2023

The men who say they are "trans lesbians" know exactly how much they are hurting lesbians. They get off on it. And they become more vicious as lesbians resist them. And then get even greater pleasure from even greater cruelty to, and violation of, lesbians and lesbian community.

They. Get. Off. On. It.

DimetrodonMarch 23, 2023

Honestly I think some of them are just truly living in a world of delusion. They want to be women so badly that they convince themselves they are women, and then when lesbians resist that idea, they convince themselves that those lesbians are just evil TERFs. Their cruelty to the so-called "TERFs" is defensiveness because they're hiding from reality. But they still think they're allies to lesbians, because how could they not be? After all, they are lesbians too.

They draw a distinction between the "good lesbians" and the "bad lesbians." And it just so happens to be that the bad lesbians are...well, actual lesbians.

LezbhonestMarch 23, 2023

r/ActuallyLesbian is a based subreddit. There’s some handmaidening going on and one or two larping TIMs (that I’ve caught through RES tagging), but overall very based and made up of real lesbians as far as I can tell. Complete banning of all topics not related to lesbianism and all posts about TIMs are swiftly removed. Highly recommend more lesbians here make their presence known because it’s growing quickly, and we all know what that means.

LezbhonestMarch 23, 2023(Edited March 23, 2023)

Replied to a comment further down but wanted to comment on yours so you’d get a notification: r/ActuallyLesbian is a good subreddit that I highly recommend; all of the lesbians on Reddit that are there are three degrees away from being TERFs and it’s super refreshing!

AtlasisawomanMarch 23, 2023

They wish pregnancy on women because they know that is incredibly dangerous, American maternal medicine is weak, and abortion is illegal. Like they know that women are oppressed and are gleeful about it.

ItsCalculatedMarch 23, 2023

FYI some mice have fish scales...

That's how stupid it sounds. These men are delusional. Just like everything else, they think they can brute force their own reality on others. You cannot change your chromosomes/sex. You cannot be a lesbian as lesbians are female.

GenderHereticMarch 23, 2023

Mermice are real and valid.

Champagne_LasagneMarch 23, 2023

Moments such as this are the only times I feel sorry about being banned from Reddit, because I'd gladly add my downvote so they can get to 8 :)

GenderHereticMarch 23, 2023(Edited March 23, 2023)

Notice how TIMs all know and are pretty much open about the fact that TIM "lesbians" are straight men who only want to fuck actual women. After all, a transbian with another transbian wouldn't result in a pregnancy, either.

They know that among themselves, there is no need to keep pretending to believe in the ideology they spout for public relations. All they want is male supremacy. That's why only women are the enemy.

TheChaliceIsMightierDickPocket=/=VagMarch 23, 2023

They’d rather not openly admit that even they don’t want to go to bed with trans women

Human_CharMarch 23, 2023

I got banned from a sub discussing the WLW themes in Taylor Swift's music for saying that lesbians are female homosexuals. This was in response to someone claiming that bi lesbians are a common normal thing throughout history 🙄

[Deleted]March 23, 2023(Edited March 23, 2023)

reveddit, r/actuallesbians

[The image was an advert promoting birth control, showing two women lying in bed]

Ahh yes the best form of birth control. Become a lesbian!

Comment:

FYI some lesbians have a penis...

Comment:

Being lesbian still means you can get someone pregnant

edit: i hope whoever downvoted me gets preggers

Reply:

I wouldn't wish that on anyone who doesn't want it, but yeah, all 7 TERFs are active today, spreading their downvotes.

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