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ArticleWhat White Lotus Gets wrong - The Truth About the Sex Trade
Posted December 22, 2022 by somegenerichandle in Television

White Lotus has been on my radar for a few weeks because many people on twitter i follow have been praising it for how it handles trauma. But, NYers for the Equity Model (a similar group to Nordic Model Now) has released a statement on how the show romanticizes prostituted women.

Take the massively popular HBO show "White Lotus," where two female characters in prostitution are portrayed as empowered, safe, and always in control.

This depiction plainly ignores reality. The vast majority of the people in prostitution are women, girls, and trans youth, all mostly of color, who experience rape, sexual coercion, psychological and physical trauma experienced at the hands of sex buyers, pimps, and traffickers.

The image posted is a bit of a spoiler:

Image transcription: Most people in prostitution do not get a happy ending like Mia and Luca. The last scene of season 2 shows Mia and Luca happily strolling off, depicting freedom and fulfillment. They got everything they dreamed of. Lucia a 50k euro payout from a sex buyer, and Mia, a job as a singer. In reality, 89% of women in prostitution state they wish they could leave prostitution, but do not have other options and 84% are under some form of third party control, pimped or trafficked. The sex trade itself is so dangerous that the number of deaths of women in prostitution is 200 times the rate of the general population.

Anyway, i thought it was interesting, despite my recommendations that the show isn't a realistic depiction.

https://mailchi.mp/ee296cf621b4/its-time-for-new-york-to-stand-with-survivors-15110097

12 comments

DurableBookMarch 21, 2025

Trans topics combine two of the areas that journalism is the worst at covering: science and gender.

Lay reporting on science is horrible. To the point where at least half the articles I read in the mainstream media say the actual OPPOSITE of what the research found. It's that bad.

And of course the media is absolute garbage at reporting on anything that has to do with gender politics or sexism or even anything remotely related to the half of the population that is female.

The specific area that sets me off lately is any time the media tries to talk about disorders of sex development...I have never, not one single time, encountered a mainstream media article that did not repeat outright falsehoods and myths as though they were fact. People are less well informed after reading the news.

DonnaFeminaMarch 21, 2025(Edited March 21, 2025)

"two of the areas that journalism is the worst at covering: science and gender."

It actually combines all three of the things journalism is terrible at! Science, gender, and the law.

Just look at all the articles about Rasha Alawieh, the Lebanese doctor who last week was refused permission to enter the US at the Boston Airport border check, and sent back to Lebanon. ALL the headlines say "DOCTOR DEPORTED" or "DEPORTED SURGEON" or deported, deported, deported.

She wasn't deported. "Deported" means that an immigrant who is in the US, either legally or illegally, is sent back to their home country. Before a person can be deported they get due process: a hearing before an immigration judge to determine whether they should be deported.

But Alawieh wasn't deported. She was denied admission to the country. Any random border agent can deny a foreign citizen admission to the country, even if the US consulate abroad gave that person a visa. No judge is required.

For background, per the articles I read and the few unsealed pleadings in her case, Alawieh was refused permission to enter apparently because it emerged that she had been in Lebanon to attend the funeral of Hezbollah leader Hassan Nasrallah, a terrorist who was responsible for at least several hundred deaths, including the deaths of American. And she allegedly had a bunch of pro-Hezbollah memes on her phone, which she had clumsily tried to delete 2 days before boarding her flight to the US.

Sorry for my rant, but these distinctions matter. I've seen trials that I was part of be completely misrepresented by reporters who were there listening to the testimony, generally because the reporters do NOT UNDERSTAND what they're hearing. And in all the uproar about Trump's immigration escapades this year, I have yet to see a mainstream news article that accurately reported what was happening from a legal perspective.

I've also yet to see a mainstream article that accurately described the legal perspectives on trans issues. The legal analysis in the media never seems to rise above "But what about their RIGHTS omg this is DISCRIMINATION and discrimination is illegal!" or "Wait but is it mean to trans people? If it makes trans people feel bad it is mean and that is discrimination and discrimination is illegal!"

nomenarewomenMarch 21, 2025

Well said

NastasyaFillipovnaMarch 21, 2025

Briefly stated, the Gell-Mann Amnesia effect is as follows. You open the newspaper to an article on some subject you know well. In Murray's case, physics. In mine, show business. You read the article and see the journalist has absolutely no understanding of either the facts or the issues. Often, the article is so wrong it actually presents the story backward—reversing cause and effect. I call these the "wet streets cause rain" stories. Paper's full of them.

In any case, you read with exasperation or amusement the multiple errors in a story, and then turn the page to national or international affairs, and read as if the rest of the newspaper was somehow more accurate about Palestine than the baloney you just read. You turn the page, and forget what you know.

That is the Gell-Mann Amnesia effect. I'd point out it does not operate in other arenas of life. In ordinary life, if somebody consistently exaggerates or lies to you, you soon discount everything they say. In court, there is the legal doctrine of falsus in uno, falsus in omnibus, which means untruthful in one part, untruthful in all. But when it comes to the media, we believe against evidence that it is probably worth our time to read other parts of the paper. When, in fact, it almost certainly isn't. The only possible explanation for our behavior is amnesia.

— Michael Crichton, "Why Speculate?" (2002)

RighteousIndignationMarch 22, 2025

I started reading psychology books, then I sat there with newspapers underlining the wording designed to lead to a conclusion rather then to inform of facts, I've never taken any of it seriously since its clear to see in the language that they are trying to enforce a viewpoint.

SrfthrowawayMarch 22, 2025

That's me! Or it was. I knew medical stuff was all completely wrong but I would read other articles and think I was being informed.

Then I sat in on most of a semester of a journalism course my uncle was teaching and my eyes were opened.

DonnaFeminaMarch 21, 2025

That's BRILLIANT.

nomenarewomenMarch 21, 2025

Really interesting insight

RighteousIndignationMarch 22, 2025

I'm pissed off at BBC journalism in general and have been boycotting them for years, why subject yourself to propaganda they don't deserve the clicks it only encourages them.

spinningintellectMarch 21, 2025

I tried to pay attention to the news when I was younger. Then I met a journalist. I never trusted it again.

You may think that's an extreme reaction, but I ask how the average person is supposed to know which strangers who often have financial or political incentive to lie to trust.

I understand journalism is necessary for democracy, but I don't see how we can possibly trust what they say.

DonnaFeminaMarch 21, 2025

Replace "journalism" with "propaganda" and you're on to something.

OpalsMarch 21, 2025

It's why we shouldn't be paying for the TV licence. I've probably saved at least £500 so far from not doing so :)