I stopped hanging in LGBT spaces a decade ago because I was TERRIFIED of this happening. You go to any event as a lesbian, and you are gonna have a TIM or two target you, try to trick you into saying something so they can take offense or put you in the position to reject them and then boom, you get TERFed and Feathered in what should have been a safe community. The gossip and blaming of lesbians for rejecting TIM dick is unreal. Most LGBT activists are really cowards, foaming at the mouth to watch a woman get beaten up. I can't imagine the trauma for this woman and her poor sister. It fucking galls me to say I feel physically safer in a CATHOLIC church than I do in LGBT groups. Yeah, I might get side eye and gossip on the side, but I don't worry about a mentally ill man in a dress punching me in the face or curb stomping me with a crowd of onlookers egging him on. HOW FUCKED UP IS THIS?!

This is the worst. They get to act like creepy sex pressuring dudes but also get to hit women and it’s just a ‘girl fight’

It pains me that the writer said "this woman" and called him "princess" etc. The reason he thought he could hit on a married woman is because he doesn't see the sister's relationship with another woman as real. To a straight man, which is what the creep is, PIV is the only sex, male on female is the only real sexual relationship. When told NO, they turn into "It's Ma'am" Gamestop dude and want to start punching.

AGP are incel/MGTOW manosphere creeps using "I'm a woman now!" as their latest PUA technique.

That reminds me of that time a TIM kept hitting on me while negging me, when i was outside smoking even when i told him, look my boyfriend is right there DJing. Then he got into the "oh i will treat you better blah blah" bs. I ignored him and went to sit right infront of the DJ booth. Ended up having to duck cause TIM was throwing chairs all over the place out of anger for being rejected by me.

The men jumped him and the police took him away. It honestly convinced me a lot of incels became trans. The way he talked to me, like it was not normal at all.

I hope the sister was not hurt too badly. That is an awful violent way to peak.

This makes me angry. I can't express how much I despise men who beat women. I know it's too much to hope for, but I hope TPS is socially ostracized for the rest of his life.

TIMs protect the sexual predators in their Communities. These kinds of interactions with Lesbians could be avoided if they exiled them.

Then they wonder why they get called predators too.

"Men violently attack women" That's what this is. There used to be a time when almost all people recognized that you don't hit a woman when she says she won't date you....but I guess we're beyond that. And how vile that a lesbian received this abuse at an event that starts w/ 'L'.

Just like witching and bitching, falsely accusing women of being terfs often makes them terfs.

Hahah.

What happened to my sister

People have asked for more specifics on what happened to my sister, and why I’m kind of stuck on it when it comes to both cotton ceiling rhetoric and the practice of terfing women for pretty much nothing. So here goes. My sister’s a lesbian. She’s married to a nice lady and they’re very loyal to each other. She has the only happy marriage that I have ever fucking seen in my life, in fact.

We were at a party, and this woman absolutely would not leave my sister alone. You have probably run into this type of sexual pest; you can find them in many populations. “I’m married” didn’t work on her; she “didn’t believe” in monogamy.

She was so damned relentless that my sister told her to fuck off…and the terfing began. This unbalanced, narcissistic bitch was trans, and got her revenge for the rejection by screeching that my sister was a terf.

It was an LGBT event. EVERYONE reacted explosively and my poor sister started getting intensively questioned. We started screaming BACK at Trans Princess Sociopath to stop bothering married women for sex. Most people backed off and laughed as they realized TPS was way out of line and was pulling the discrimination card when refused. It’s a common asshole tactic, and apparently TPS had a reputation for being an asshole.

That in itself? No reflection on trans women as a whole, there are shitheads in every group like I say regularly. But it was the reaction of most other trans women in the group that really pissed me off. They just took her at her word. And she was fucking LYING.

Anyway, TPS didn’t like being called out for terrible behavior. So she and her handful of friends stormed off for a while, and we were relieved because we thought they were gone. Then they came back and surrounded my sister when she went outside for a smoke. And the biggest member of them started beating her in the face for being a “terf”.

I have PTSD. Everything between when I saw what was happening and when my sister got to the hospital was pretty much told to me by someone else because it’s all a big ugly blur. But it can basically be summed up with “I flipped out, pulled the bastard away on adrenaline strength, covered my sister’s body with mine and started screaming a lot until a bunch of people intervened”. There were cops involved. I don’t know who called them.

We pressed charges. It was that far over the line. We didn’t make any friends in the local trans community in the process, though we would have pressed charges on literally anyone who beat my sister up. They ignored that and the brute’s violence, and decided that my sister and I were terfs.

I had to explain a million times the difference between “anti-trans” and “anti-specific assholes”, until I just got tired of it and stopped trying. It opened my eyes to transactivists’ cult-like behavior and mentality. It also opened my eyes to the real issue: it didn’t matter if my sister accepted trans women as women or not if she wasn’t giving up pussy, if she complained, or if she retaliated against any of them–even in response to violence.

And that is why I am FURIOUSLY protective of lesbians who are being pressured to provide sexual access to people they’re not attracted to, and ostracized and threatened when they refuse. I have come as close to being in their shoes as a straight girl can–close enough at least to genuinely empathize. And until the community stops turning sexual entitlement into a political movement, and rationalizing and denying the behavior of violent creeps like TPS and her thug of a friend, I will remain heavily critical of transactivists.

And this is why I won't be at any LGBT events.

Of course it's about sexual access and coercive control of women. And what does that remind everyone of?

Admitting that we have a problem with sexual predators who are trans women is the same as admitting that they were never actually women, and the assholes who defend them know it.

As a lesbian there's a reason I always carry a taser.

Pressuring women for sex then reacting with violence when refused? Sounds like male behaviour to me.

Who the fuck lets people like this attend events? The state the LGBT community has gotten into is horrifying - no one should EVER have to be subject to such a disgusting homophobic attack and especially not in a place that is supposed to be welcoming.

It's always, always TiMs who pull shit like this. I've never read about a roided up TiF doing the same to a gay man refusing her. It's all male entitlement, and male pattern violence. Fake boobs or not.

I have never seen a woman get so mad at another woman she started to beat her. Pull her hair, yes. Slap, yes. But beating? That is man-world.

You should criss post this to name the problem, I think

I'm sharing this with my lefty friends

This makes me incredibly sad and angry