57 comments

Carrots90February 13, 2023

Fuck TERFS

Then

Please don’t attack other users

And

We want to foster a safe stitching place for everyone

barnarnas [OP]February 13, 2023

Everyone*

*Who isn't guilty of Thoughtcrime

proudcatladyFebruary 13, 2023

I laughed out loud in the airport at 4 AM

WanderingWitchFebruary 13, 2023

Don’t forget the “Please be kind to everyone” bit.

[Deleted]February 13, 2023(Edited February 13, 2023)

"I said fucking BE KIND you dirty-cunt-whore-sluts!! Why won't you fcking OBEY ME!!!"

vulvapeopleFebruary 13, 2023

"It's called empathy, you piece of shit."

PtarmagantFebruary 13, 2023(Edited February 13, 2023)

Ahhhh, a safe space... except for anyone who doesn't want naked men in the girls changing room

barnarnas [OP]February 13, 2023

Based on the comments OP created this to vent their Big Feelings about a certain new game 🙄

spinnerFebruary 13, 2023

A lot of gaming groups banned all discussion of a particular game, so now they're posting in other random groups that have nothing to do with games just to continue to whine about this game.

[Deleted]February 13, 2023

Piss off, TRA fuckwit. “Be kind” while extending hatred to women and churning out rubbish patterns. Loser.

barnarnas [OP]February 13, 2023

Right? That's totally acceptable but someone posting their finished "Adult Human Female" piece deserves to be bullied until deletion. (Not me, but I think about that poster often and wish I'd reached out at the time 😔)

[Deleted]February 13, 2023

The person going around calling women slurs is telling people to "be kind." Please 🙄 Why are so many Redditors okay with being controlled by these little tyrants?

RusticTroglodyteFebruary 14, 2023

Bc reddit is literally run by tims and a few of their handmaids. Subs like askwomen and actuallesbians are modded almost exclusively by tims

BehindtheCurtainFebruary 13, 2023(Edited February 13, 2023)

But there are no slurs for women because life is so much easier for women. 🤡

Those mods hide all dissent, which is why people don't realize they are tyrants

asmahanFebruary 13, 2023

Why are so many [people] okay with being controlled?

NotYourSupportAnimalFebruary 13, 2023

Because in return a fan club of roleplaying, perverted misogynists tells them what pure and good people they are.

No.

Really.

DietCokeAddictFebruary 13, 2023

That sub is gross now, they’ve been posting “fuck terfs” patterns for well over a year. I’ve never once seen a pattern for “fuck racists” or “fuck pedos” or anyone else - wonder why that is…

MooncupFebruary 13, 2023

So curious, isn't it.

[Deleted]February 13, 2023

“Ranking genocides”. Lemme guess, the “genocide” of trans ranked the highest?

1.6 million trans in the USA and 32 murders the past year. How can the Holocaust even compete??! Clearly, they have it much worse.

AlwaysOrdduFebruary 13, 2023

Every craft subreddit is like this. Glad I left Reddit for good.

barnarnas [OP]February 13, 2023

I'm definitely feeling pushed towards leaving. The number of places I can truly speak my mind is almost zero.

OverTheWallFebruary 13, 2023

Facebook is starting to get like that too…

So far they haven’t destroyed crafting hashtags on Instagram (yet), or it’s just the algorithm knows to keep them in their bubble. And Ravelry seems to be pretty safe from them as well.

AlwaysOrdduFebruary 13, 2023(Edited February 13, 2023)

Ravelry is the worst...it's run by a TIM and his wife.

OverTheWallFebruary 13, 2023

Say it ain’t so!

But most groups don’t talk about it. Every other social media site is absolutely taken over by their discourse and victimhood

sailor_samFebruary 13, 2023

It’s really ironic that the mods username involves “pibble”. Shows they belong to another delusional group of people who downplay the harm something does.

Apricot_IbexFebruary 13, 2023

💯 You read my mind!

MissBehavedFebruary 13, 2023(Edited February 13, 2023)

Not enough people discuss this issue. Children are mauled daily in the US by these creatures. Shelters are directly responsible too, for misleading well-intentioned people.

JernsaxaFebruary 13, 2023

What is pibble?

sailor_samFebruary 13, 2023

It’s a “cute” name for the pitbull breed of dog. It’s usually given by people who are of the opinion that pillbulls are not inherently violent and all incidents of pitbulls causing death or harm to people, children, and other animals is because of “bad owners” or “lack of training”, when in reality even specialist pitbull trainers have said they’re far too violent to keep as average pets.

MiMi2013February 13, 2023

"Did U KnoW tHey U$ed to Be uSed as NanNy daWgs-?" JFC.

proudcatladyFebruary 13, 2023

A friendly cute name for “pit bull,” which is a breed of dogs that can only be described as the men of dogs

JernsaxaFebruary 13, 2023

Ah, okay. Thanks :)

pixipodFebruary 13, 2023

It's so annoying how they take over almost every space with this shit.

Champagne_LasagneFebruary 13, 2023(Edited February 13, 2023)

sigh I used to love that sub, a couple years ago. They really ruin everything they touch, like mold or some kind of disease.

Edit: and that's a very shitty pattern too, a literal child could have done better.

RighteousIndignationFebruary 13, 2023

fuck terfs is exactly why we don't want them in our spaces they are obsessed with fucking anything that moves and many things that don't.

HexFebruary 13, 2023

"I have been watching this thread like a hawk and haven't seen any comments attacking HP fans. Personally attacking other users violates rule 1."

Lol, a reminder that reddit mods are universally laughed at as janitors that perform millions of dollars of free labour for a website that doesn't give a crap about them. Imagine watching a thread like a hawk in your leisure time.

And "Fuck terfs" is literally what they want to do, because terfs are real women who won't sleep with mentally ill men who think they are women..

vulvapeopleFebruary 13, 2023

millions of dollars of free labour

It's funny to me that Reddit's owners and investors are delusional about it going public. Its business model only works with free labor, and no way is that continuing once it has a market cap. If it does go public, we should rejoice, because it'll be like the social media site in Halt and Catch Fire that went under six months after its IPO.

assignedpooratbirthFebruary 13, 2023

The fact that the mods felt the need to post that gives me hope, though. There must have been quite a few people that weren’t playing their games.

hontrapointsFebruary 13, 2023

Such an ugly and lazy cross stitch idea

IntuitiveStainsFebruary 13, 2023

Lol. I wonder who started the 'genocide' discussion? It certainly wasn't the average population of the subreddit, I'll say that much.

barnarnas [OP]February 13, 2023

Some poor soul questioned the need for hate "on either side" and they were promptly eaten alive. And Nazis came up because defending people with brains "TERFs" is the same as defending Nazis obviously 🙄

PicklesFebruary 13, 2023

Every time someone says the word TERF, it makes some people say "what's a TERF?" And then they Google it and become a TERF.

It's like if I went around calling people RAME. Then someone says "what's RAME?" And I tell them it's anyone who believes rocks are real. Then they realize they've been a RAME the whole time.

tizmiFebruary 13, 2023

If only they'd Google it - so often I see people ask and get a reply like "TERFs are evil facists who want to genocide LGBTQIA+ people", so they say 'oh, OK, those are bad people then'. It's like when someone asks what JK Rowling said that was so bad and instead of actual quotes, they get link to some YouTube video that creatively reinterprets what she said to mean the worst possible thing.

PicklesFebruary 13, 2023

Yeah the lack of curiosity of some people continues to disappoint me. That said, I think the more times the term is used the more people look into it themselves. And I see more push back these days. When someone posts a link to a video there are often times people who will encourage them to look into it for themselves instead.

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[Deleted]February 13, 2023

So edgy!

MooncupFebruary 13, 2023

Lol I love how how much terfs are on their minds.

BlahdyblahdyblahFebruary 13, 2023

At this point, they can keep going for all I'm concerned. We know they're not doing themselves any favors these days. They're aggressively misogynistic and everyone can see it.

RusticTroglodyteFebruary 14, 2023

Notice that it's never "fuck men who murder trans ppl" or "fuck rapists"

It's so much easier to focus your vitriol at women than to face the reality: that men commit nearly 100% of crimes against trans identified persons

PointerFebruary 13, 2023(Edited February 13, 2023)

Post one that says "fuck trans activists" and see what happens

[Deleted]February 13, 2023