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[–] [Deleted] 83 points Edited

No one is stopping women from using the mens room.. I really don't think men care. Considering they're trying their damndest to get into OURS.

We want men to stop using ours.

TiFs are so disgustingly misogynistic to keep face with how "manly" they are 😁 keep crushing and abusing your sisters, it makes you more manly!

No one is stopping women from using the mens room.. I really don't think men care

I've always thought that in bathrooms and sports and things there should be a female space and a unisex space. Men would have to use the unisex space, and women can choose either. That way, if a woman doesn't mind men in their bathroom then she can skip a long queue and use the unisex, but women's protections haven't been taken away. And there's a category in sports that can accommodate everyone, whilst maintaining fair competition for female athletes

Instead it's the other way around in a lot of places. I've been hearing that a lot of public facilities now have unisex and men's. Makes no sense whatsoever.

[–] A_Lady 18 points Edited

I don’t know. I know plenty of decent men who would be bothered or uncomfortable sharing their spaces with women/girls. Yes, women face higher risks in mixed sex spaces but I also agree with the argument that women’s spaces are for women so no justification is needed to keep them single sex (Even though there are many good reasons to). But I think men/boys should expect the same privacy in their spaces.

These people need to fight for third spaces or for establishments to add single use facilities for them. While having men in unisex spaces would be better than turning women’s spaces into unisex spaces due to the safety issues women face, I don’t think forcing men to make their spaces unisex is the answer either.

They're admitting women are not safe in men's spaces and not understanding the hypocrisy of allowing men into women's spaces.

This is anecdotal evidence, but one of my friends dated a trans man and she said they were the most misogynistic person she had ever been with. I think that they thought that treating her like shit would make them seem more "manly".

I can't even figure out what this person is trying to prove. Would you be more comfortable washing your prosthetic dick out in the men's room in front of the little boys? I thought people just wanted to pee, regardless of what unknown personal secret was in their pants, and that's why it was unthinkable to consider some sort of pre/post op compromise honor system...

I really do hate how trans men make such an over-the-top performance of being the worst kind of male jerkoff. It seems so common, and way too often they get lovey dovey pats on the back from their friends for it, too, bc it's just cute. No one is ever threatened so it's like someone playing "rebel without a cause", leather jacket and slicked back hair but basically adorable - "tough" in a very safe way... But it still encourages the stereotype of being tough and when it's not safe (eg, not a prosthetic?) it can turn scary fast.

Another reason why feeling sorry for them because “they’re misguidedly trying to escape misogyny this way” wears thin very quickly. It’s misogyny for thee but not for me.

She's gonna pee through a tube she has to then wash out in a public sink? How pointlessly unsanitary.

Also, is this behavior she would have in the men's room when she's trying to blend in? Doubt it. She's just admitting she feels safer cleaning her (un)sanitary products in the women's room.

That occurred to me, too. These people are just so gross and dirty all the time for absolutely no reason.

Well, I use a female urination device in public restrooms so I don't have to sit on the nasty toilet.

Plenty of men sit down to pee too. They are needlessly obsessed with stereotypes

Apart from the vileness of this tweet, I just don’t understand why or how someone feels better by this pretending. Using a prosthetic penis to pee would remind me every time that I’m not actually a man. How have we got to this position that we cater to this instead of treating it as a mental illness?

When I was seven or eight, I desperately wanted to be a boy because they had all the best stories. Even at that age, I felt the disparity between how girls and boys were treated - and this was in the 70s, before the pinkification of everything girl. If someone had offered me a packer at the time, I might have taken it, but I would always have known it was fake. I grew out of wanting/pretending to be a boy and turned that feeling into feminism.

I guess what I’m saying is that I don’t understand how trans people cope with the cognitive dissonance, and that frankly they’d be better off if we didn’t coddle their delusions.

I have been thinking about this a lot. It's like we've reached this point where the majority of people are TOO accepting. We accept these people that want to mutilate their body to be something they can't be, that clearly have a mental disorder and we cater to them. We watch so many people with horrible body image destroy themselves with plastic surgery and go, "good for them!“ We can't even tell a morbidly obese person who clearly has a food addiction that they're being unhealthy, because no, they're" beautiful". Hell, where I live we are supposed to be accepting of heroin addicts and their "lifestyle choice".

No! These people need help and therapy! People should be encouraging them to get help/treatment/therapy, not applauding them for having a mental illness or disorder.

Nope, she'll say "there's a woman washing a sex toy in the public bathroom!"

More like report your ugly ass to the police for exposing a child to sex toys in a public bathroom, creep.

Right, if she wants to pretend she’s a dude than that is indecent exposure in front of a child. Can’t have it both ways

How about just don't be a freak that pees on a piece of plastic in public? And don't fantasize about doing gross stuff in front of children, how hard is that?

I honestly hate when TiFs speak and act intentionally gross to be "one of the guys". This one has this power fantasy of threatening women and girls with her piss-filled prosthetic dick, but I doubt she'd be willing to openly parade her paraphernalia around in a men's restroom. No, gotta punish a completely innocent woman or girl if you don't get your way.

[+] [Deleted] 13 points

Would he do it if the father was present? Cause trust me I've seen dads send people on a coma just for touching their kids but of course they woudlnt, they know their privillege and how to use it against vulnerable women.

Well, she's got the misogynistic pedophile act down to a science, I'll give her that.

We get it: females can be misogynists and child abusers too

So she's cool with sexually harassing/grooming a child?

That doesn't sound even remotely toxic or pedophilic. /s

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