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GenderHereticNovember 3, 2024
Oh fuck off, TIM. This is not why you are planning on divorcing your wife. You are going to divorce her because she is sick and you are a man who sees women as helpmeets for men, not humans, and therefore she is now useless to you and you can heartlessly abandon her in her hour of need.
You seized on the opportunity to use your trans status as automatic victimhood regardless of your abuse of others, such as your sick wife.
BINGO. This is all just a convenient excuse
OnlyHumanNovember 3, 2024
The prospect of having your life in the hands of others is fucking terrifying because of people like this
pennygadgetNovember 3, 2024
The one blessing to her being in a care home is that at least she's not dependent on him for basic daily needs like medication or showers. But still, it's scary to be at the mercy of someone like this. He probably cleaned out their bank account to buy spinny skirts
NONovember 3, 2024
Everyone needs to call him an abusive fuck to his face.
NastasyaFillipovnaNovember 3, 2024
Revert back to the before social media times, and he absolutely would've been kicked out of his TiMness
BeachBleachNovember 3, 2024
What an abusive bastard, selfish bastard, to do that to his sickly wife. Just gross. Sounds like he's going to ignore her and/or get a divorce. That's what some men do when their wives have a health crisis. Like Newt Gingrich divorcing his wife when she got cancer.
He's already basically ignoring her now. Sounds like he finally got a good enough excuse to divorce her
pennygadgetNovember 3, 2024
This poor woman is so sick she's in a care home. And this asshole expects her to prioritize his identity crisis above all else. What a piece of shit.
I hope she has other loved ones who visit her so he's not her only connection to the outside world
nomenarewomenNovember 3, 2024
I wouldn’t call it an identity crisis - more like a perverted awakening.
LizardQNovember 3, 2024
She might be thinking the stress of her illness and worrying about her led to his "breakdown" too. Poor woman might be sitting there blaming herself and feeling guilty.
He sees her once a week - does it REALLY matter if she isn't "supportive"?? And I would bet money, (especially considering how most men act when their wife gets sick), that he doesn't communicate much, if at all, during the week, or he would've mentioned it.
He's gearing up to divorce her, makes me wonder why he hasn't already. And the reason is likely financial
Something just doesn't add up here
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KorokNovember 3, 2024
From OestroJean:
Sounds like a control thing. Being in a care home, where someone has others 'doing' for her can bring out such behaviour; they've less control in such an environment, and rather than sit comfortably in that and grow to acceptance, residents can, paradoxically take it out on the very people who provide history beyond that of the care home. I guess it's a negative aspect of institutionalisation. She wouldn't be able to behave like that towards the staff without it impacting her daily care interactions. But she can do it to you, and then do the passive-aggressive 'are you annoyed about something?' to prolong the control and see how stretchy the elastic is that holds you two together- only, in a care home, where her needs are reliably and regularly met, she's probably less conscious of the idea that you can actually ignore her.
That's leaving aside all the declining health stuff.. and pre-existing personality/mental health aspects ————
There just ain’t no way these people are real
OnlyHumanNovember 3, 2024
She wouldn't be able to behave like that towards the staff without it impacting her daily care interactions
I love how there's some awareness about how she can't piss off people she's dependent on but zero reflection on the implications of this
KorokNovember 3, 2024
HoNeStLy, my lady brain won’t let me think about other's feelings and how I fit into larger society, but that’s just me!!!🥰
LapisLazuliNovember 3, 2024
This made me angry too. I wonder if she will get better if he does leave, because he sounds like he's on his way out anyway. What a scumbag. I hope she's got a better support system other than him!
TrappedInACarNovember 3, 2024
I do hope she has a better support system. He changed his name a month ago so has seen her 4 times since? You can tell he was being awful as well because she went from “it will take time to get used to your new name” to “I will only ever know you as your old name” in the same conversation. Disgusting man.
FastWavesNovember 3, 2024
I really want this to be rage bait but it's probably not. These guys are the most self-centered assholes on earth.
RNPhalaropeNovember 4, 2024
This is actually frightening to me. He is absolutely an abusive man. She needs protection from him. I hope there are friends or family members who can help her. I hope the staff of the care facility is aware of this and can assist her.
nomenarewomenNovember 3, 2024
And this is why I’m not afraid to speak plainly about trans issues - because of narcissistic prigs like this man. What an absolute arse.
Which one of you wrote this? Come on. Let’s not eat onions
Mate, she's in a care home and you're visiting once a week. This is the most male thing - having your own "crisis" when your wife gets sick and making it all about you again.
Still, at least he's gorgeous! https://www.reddit.com/r/mtfashion/comments/1g7axsy/bought_this_jacket_today/ 🤢
Totally expected that a TiM would do this, but just his facial expression alone gives the air of a guy who complains that his wife is using her hysterectomy operation two days ago as an excuse not to cook or do any chores.
That’s the vibe I got from him. He looks horrifying. Nightmare fuel.
Does he wear her clothes to visit her sometimes? It honestly would not surprise me. He probably wants her plaudits for that.
Poor woman must be horrified. I really hope she's not blaming herself for him "going crazy" because of her sickness.
Wouldn't surprise me if he was wearing her clothes if you look at the length of the sleeves and trousers on him. They're for someone smaller.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TransLater/comments/1fearfc/first_time_at_doctor_surgery_dressed/
Wow! Of course he posts on that gross hugbox Translater sub. Basically all asshole dudes who abandon their families like this on there, a lot of them fucking grandpas (maybe he is too). YES he is wearing her clothes, he has to be! There is no way he can even close that jacket. Just wow. Imagine sitting there putting on your sick wife's clothes for a fetish. A normal person would be looking at them in the closet and crying. I just can't with these narcissistic perverts.
What the fuck??? What is that outfit lmao
Honestly, it looks like something my eccentric 75yo mother would wear - except that the trousers would not sit 7 inches above her ankles, and she probably wouldn't have gone for a baseball cap, pigtails, choker and then proudly displayed her strangler hands as if she'd just murdered two female joggers.
Truth!
Srsly he looks like the average uxoricidal maniac
He does! I mean, he's an arsehole for only visiting once a week, but hey, at least she isn't completely at his mercy at home. If I were working on her floor, I'd pay special attention to her wellbeing when he visited. There's no way he's safe to be around her. I might even try to put a sitter in the room, saying that they're there for her roommate, just to diffuse any kind of a situation.
Hopefully she's in a decent place with all the help she needs.
I bet he's wearing her old clothes.
She might be at his mercy financially. Care homes aren't cheap
He thinks he's about to have a bunch of hot Zoomer girls fighting to the death to have a sleepover with him so he's starting shit with his wife so that he can be the victim about it all
LMAO at the one comment