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Something tells me that once he starts dressing like a sex clown, she's gonna leave so fast there will be skid marks on the floor
formallyknownaswomanAugust 26, 2024
I wish I could talk to partner for 1 minute. Girl. Look at his phone history. It's going to be Sissy porn or trans gooning. Run. Run girl run.
Dressed2K1llAugust 26, 2024
You are gonna loose (sic) her.
You fucked around and found out. Here’s your honorary keychain 🏳️⚧️
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DeafCatMeowAugust 26, 2024
Manly guy with a big beard and stuff
She'll look ridiculous next to Sparkle-Rae Moonbow or whatever he'll call himself. I hope she finds some trans widow stories and leaves in time.
DustyAugust 26, 2024
I've learned that men who describe themselves as burly, manly, bearded, and beefy on the internet do not look like the beefcake they imagine themselves to be. They're just obese or out of shape and happen to be grossly hairy.
YarrowheartAugust 27, 2024
This. Typically the neckbearded type, gaming in their mother's basement and subsisting on Mountain Dew and chicken tendies.
I feel dirty just having typed that out.
drdeeisbackAugust 26, 2024
Yes, I hope she's doing her research and learning what's likely to be in store for her if she tries to stick it out.
MandyAugust 26, 2024
I think she's hoping right now it's a phase and he'll come out of it. But there doesn't seem to be any escape from this rabbit hole. The sooner she ends things with him the easier it will be for everyone.
She’s placating him and making plans to run i hope
vulvapeopleAugust 26, 2024
The promise not to get SRS might not work out either. Yes, a lot of TIMs keep their penises, but also many, as they chase that dragon, get deeper and deeper into mental illness and self-hatred. When he first started using trans as a grift, Jonathan Yaniv seemed like the last TIM to go all the way and yet...
hard_headed_womanAugust 26, 2024
And what good is a shrinking, floppy dick once he's been on blockers and estrogen for a while? Ewwe.
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This is amateur hour. Didn’t he get the memo to wait until after she has made several kids with his sperm? Then according to the male legal system, she and those kids she made are his property and she won’t have the OPTION to leave in a meaningful sense
AadirMorgendorferAugust 26, 2024
I can't understand how he was hiding his true self before. If I suddenly found myself in a man's body, I presume my husband would not want to be with me anymore which would be a bummer, but beyond that, my life would be very similar. I'd dress the same, read the same books, play the same games, etc. I suppose I'd walk alone with less fear. What do they imagine transition unlocks?? Especially transition where everyone still knows you're a man really. Genuinely, how does it allow you to be your true self?
Mlle_HedgehogAugust 27, 2024
It unlocks being able to openly fetishize themselves by indulging in what they consider the epitome of girly things and feminine behavior. In the case of my ex, that was cooking in a sports bra, staring at himself in the mirror, and sleeping in the dowdiest pink nightgown he could find (not all at the some time, obvs).
From what I've seen with gender swap fiction, the first thing a male does with a female body is touch it, so I would assume that's what it unlocks
pennygadgetAugust 26, 2024
I hope this is part of the process of getting out. He wasted six years of her life. She can't let him have any more (especially if she wants children in the future)
Run, lady! You are absolutely correct that this is not what you envision for your future or what you were promised. You are not required to spend your life legally shackled to a perv.
Now, I don’t think anything said here will fix this particular perv. But maybe some man is lurking and thinking about taking this same route and let me tell you something. DO NOT LISTEN TO THE OTHER PERVS. You will lose the woman you claim to love and strangers online are not a substitute. Think long and hard about really abandoning the serious porn habit you’ve acquired and living in real life. Take up a physical hobby. Read actual books. Go to events. Ask your partner what things SHE would like to do with you.
Maybe some of you can turn the perv around and change your own life by LIVING instead of turning into yet another pathetic guy who let porn eat his life and brain.
vulvapeopleAugust 26, 2024
Why does he start calling her "they" in the third post? Is this one of those AGPs who wants his female partner to roll back performance of femininity so he can peacock?
VegantinatalistAugust 26, 2024
omg for real they always do that. every partner of a trans person i know "discovered" they were nonbinary or agender or whatever through their trans partner. "oh damn. if being a woman is all this kinky shit then wow i guess im not a woman. im so enlightened <3"
LezbhonestAugust 26, 2024
Maybe so he doesn’t come off as a pervy straight AGP? Plausible HSTS deniability lmao
Mlle_HedgehogAugust 27, 2024
Ugh the poor girlfriend. I completely relate to her going back and forth in such a short amount of time. Wish I could tell her not to delay; that first instinct is the right one.
samsdatAugust 27, 2024
I bet he somehow blackmailed her into taking him back, or he’s fucking lying in the last post
SaladSparklzAugust 26, 2024
What is a "gender counsellor"? Is that like a grand pubah TIM you get assigned to when you transition and you consult them for your life choices?
VegantinatalistAugust 26, 2024
they might actually be good people. a trans guy i know saw one and they convinced him not to get surgery and just take small amounts of estrogen. i suspect theyre trying to stop people from full on self destructing and must perform gender acceptance to be allowed to do so. but who knows
Aw, why is he sad? If she was straight when she dated him it should be SUPER validating she's not into him anymore!
Glad she dumped his ass BEFORE the wedding, so many times these asshokes baby trap their wives before coming out. She dodged a HUGE bullet!! God what a fucking waste of 6 years
ah shit she gave him the time of day again RUN, PLEASE. IT ISN'T WORTH IT.
hard_headed_womanAugust 26, 2024
Meanwhile, he's hoping for a wedding where he can outshine the bride in his beautiful wedding dress!
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Stupid scrote. You're supposed to wait until married and pregnant to tell her youre trans so she feels she has no option but to stay with you.
This advanced move has a greater likelihood of working the longer you wait, 10 or 20, hell even 30 years if you can, also to make assurance doubly sure, promise her that she can be a stay-at-home mom to your children and be sure to handle all finances for the entire marriage so that she's completely dependant on you before you drop the bomb that'll destroy her life forever. Given this situation, choosing you will feel like the lesser of two evils because she'll be invested in the well-being of her children far more than in her own happiness, and you can then post on internet forums so your fellow TIM friends can praise you for finding such a wonderfully accepting wife.
Well, he did waste six years of her life.
🤣This reminds of so many of these types of Tims but especially the recent infamous MrBeast's childhood friend
What creeps Tims are!
Timing is everything, dude!