My ex girlfriend, the saint she is…
So glad she got away from this whiny pervert. Who wants to bet his “accessorizing” is atrocious costume jewelry and a stuffed animal purse?
‘yeah, ur such a woman, hahah. what, no, im not backing away out of the room? ur so womanly dont even worry about it…’
Man engages in a behavior that many people find weird at the least and has been linked to serial murder (crossdressing). Then he wonders why people keep their distance or point this out.
Do these men EVER stop and think they’ve done this to themselves? That, generally, they’re straight, white guys and they’ve CHOSEN THIS and of course they feel bad when everyone steers clear because who wants to be involved, even in a friendship, with someone who’s blaring their terrible choices to the world? And, what else are people supposed to even talk to them ABOUT? They are literally so narcissistic they think they can just shrug on the appearance of the opposite sex. It’s creepy.
Men so frequently see the locus of responsibility as outside themselves. They’re just subject to the whims of their desires! Wheeeeee!
He wants to pass as something he’s not. He can’t because there’s no such thing. What does he want me to do about that?
He could have just been a gender-non-conforming man who acknowledges that he’s a man, without acting like his fashion choices, makeup, posture, etc, are the defining part of his identity. Maybe some people would’ve thought he was odd or eccentric, but that’s par for the course for most women throughout history who’ve demanded to be seen as human beings rather than sex objects. He would’ve learned to deal with the occasional stares, but the positive end result would’ve been that other people around him would’ve eventually grown more accepting of gender-non-conforming men who like fashion or whatever.
Instead, this man chose to make being “trans” the defining part of his identity, so what is he expecting? He chose to make pretending to be something that he biologically is not and can be, into the central part of his identity. He chose to treat women as if they are costumes because all it takes to “become” a woman in his eyes is just putting on makeup and a dress.
Dude, everyone thinks you are a man who wants to be a woman (but isn't and can never be). People who indulge you do so because they know you are mentally unstable, viciously vindictive (everyone at work just wants to keep their jobs), and have the potential for male violence.