23 comments

DimetrodonSeptember 12, 2024

Why are TIMs apparently so much better at finding TERF groups than me? 😩 I'm jealous.

HopefulGuitar1991September 12, 2024

They might be making it up for the oppression points.

SlickHillySeptember 13, 2024

Lol I never come across TERF Women!

pennygadgetSeptember 13, 2024

LOL I know right! So unfair!

001HeartSeptember 12, 2024

TIMs: Go make your own TERF spaces!!!!

Women: Okey

TIMs: gasp a female-only space! Without my dick in it???? OPPRESHUN!!!!!! Time to shut that down!

formallyknownaswomanSeptember 13, 2024

It's a girldick how dare you!

SonnetSeptember 12, 2024

Women want to gather without me. Should I report them, or….?

TheChaliceIsMightierDickPocket=/=VagSeptember 12, 2024

Um excuse me ladies, you appear not to have a male supervisor. Let me insert myself or you must disband permanently.

pennygadgetSeptember 13, 2024

Women gathering without a male babysitter!!?? Surely this MUST be illegal!!!

NOSeptember 12, 2024

Aahhh... men reporting women for being disobedient.

pennygadgetSeptember 13, 2024

This scrote lives in the SF Bay Area. There is no shortage of queer/trans groups nearby full of other TIMs and handmaidens who would love to kiss his ass. But, of course, he has to colonize the few lesbian groups in San Francisco that are still actual lesbian groups

[Deleted]September 12, 2024

I am so over these little dicktators who can't handle real life or the fact that they don't control it.

To the women resisting them: Solidarity, Sisters!

Dearly_HermioneSeptember 12, 2024

I hope this is a trend. I sometimes can't understand the cognitive dissonance. I was chatting with some online friends who don't know I'm gender critical, and they are talking about the importance of woman spaces and woman being able to say no. What makes me sad is that I know they fall into TRA camp, so they don't see that this should also apply to trans woman. It makes me so frustrated! Like so close, except for this massive blind spot. I know I should be more angry at the TIMs, and I am. I'm just also still so...disappointed I guess, at least outside this space.

syntaxerrorSeptember 13, 2024

There’s a youtuber who I generally like and who is very GNC but is not trans or non-binary (a rarity these days online it seems) but she did a video recently discussing the TradWife trend and feminism on tiktok and it was so frustrating to hear the inevitable detour into how transwomen were also affected and suffering, and all the rampant transphobia inherent in this phenomenon.

Holyyy shit it’s such a weird thing to hear someone talk about women not being able to open bank accounts in the 70s and how women didn’t used to have a choice in being “traditional” and then derail into a TRA spiel.

It always makes me think of those (prominent, famous) AGPs who post long rants about how women are made to be fucktoy slaves, and that’s how they knew they were women, and these are the people she’s defending?

Dearly_HermioneSeptember 14, 2024

It's so disheartening. How come any mention of woman's oppression has to include people who were born with male privilege? I've been having one of those days where I'm extra frustrated and over it after having to side step the whole JK Rowling is the worst conversation with a fandom acquaintance. People I like and generally agree with yet when it comes to woman's rights, we aren't aligned. Plus the narrative that we are the monsters for not buying into gender ideology always makes me feel even worse about all of it.

mathloverSeptember 12, 2024(Edited September 12, 2024)

Meetup seems to be more hands off as long as the boundary setting (ie: excluding TIMs) is "implicit" but clear enough for the men to know they won't be invited into the Meetup group or to any events. And that even if they manage to deceive their way into one event, they will never be invited back. The whole purpose of Meetup seems to be to allow people to choose only who they want to meet up with.

PracticalMagicSeptember 13, 2024

There are so many groups that aren't for me. That's OK. There are also groups that are for me, and in the unlikely event there aren't I can make one.

People are allowed to exclude SOMETIMES.

ForestandthetreesSeptember 13, 2024

You sound like you’re explaining this to a five year old lol

PracticalMagicSeptember 14, 2024

Well that's about the level they need.

pennygadgetSeptember 13, 2024

"Wah! The Chinese meet up group told me they only accept Chinese speakers! Can I make a discrimination complaint to meetup.com!!??" 😭

SlickHillySeptember 13, 2024

When the Y Apocolypse comes to pass, these things known as men will be among the first to enrich Mother Earth, feeding her daughters.

I don't even know what emoji to put here so you know I'm totally kidding.

"Totally kidding."

😉

[Deleted]September 13, 2024

[Comment deleted]

[Deleted]September 13, 2024

[Comment deleted]