16 comments

RNPhalaropeOctober 4, 2024

Late in reading this, but thank you for investigating and sharing with all of us. Makes me realize that my family isn't too weird!

Metal_detector [OP]The ReporterOctober 4, 2024

It’s my pleasure. It’s become kinda fun for me to dig around and find these relics of the past

RNPhalaropeOctober 4, 2024

This entire story is almost beyond belief.

So much wrong. I honestly had to keep going back in the stories to remember who was Tom and who was Harry, who was mom and who was dad.

Jean/ Tom smoking? I hope not in the house with Sheila/Harry who has serious lung problems.

Sheila/ Harry sounds like both a lunatic (Ronald Reagan out to get them?) and a grifter. Finally becoming some kind of minister? Landing in Cottonwood, AZ, another small town. They liked small towns because they wouldn't be invisible.

Metal_detector [OP]The ReporterOctober 4, 2024

I know!!!! I didn’t even catch that part about Jean smoking with Harry in the house with his lung problems. Absolutely wild story.

Truth really is more strange than fiction if you ask me. This is just evidence of it.

hellamomzillaOctober 1, 2024(Edited October 1, 2024)

Not enough coffee for what should be a Tom, Dick, and Harry joke that’s in there somehow.

WhitciOctober 1, 2024

Thank you for finding all of these! They’re fascinating!

Metal_detector [OP]The ReporterOctober 1, 2024

My pleasure!

worried19October 1, 2024

Thanks for posting these. I was really curious about this couple.

Interesting that Jean did adopt the male name "Tom" at one point, but she was back to being Jean by 2011.

Sheila is survived by her spouse of 33 years, Jean

https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/sheila-reynolds-obituary?pid=178635352

I find myself suspicious that the "transsexual couple" thing may have been a gimmick to draw public and financial support for Sheila's transition.

RNPhalaropeOctober 4, 2024

Agree that Jean must have changed her mind at some point, going back to Jean and referred to as spouse.

Metal_detector [OP]The ReporterOctober 1, 2024(Edited October 1, 2024)

Jeans story is tragic. She said in one of the articles that she was raped by several family members. So no wonder she wanted to try and change her body.

Also I wouldn’t be surprised. We all know how deeply caring and empathetic TIMs are.

Jean suffered a miscarriage and he had the nervous breakdown cuz he felt like he should have been the one pregnant, and that Jean wasn’t trying hard enough. Despite how much Jean hated being pregnant.

Luckily with the surgery, Jean never had to worry about being pregnant anymore.

faerieberryOctober 1, 2024

Wow what a wild story with some twists! The Star story specifically gives me a vibe of the dad being unhinged

Also it says Jean had 2 kids she lost custody of, before marrying him? So the other 2 kids mentioned (the dad’s first kid, and their kid together) are totally different.. I wonder what ever happened to her first 2 :( Then the other 2 had to be dragged all over the country, sleep in the car, and deal with the confusion of what was going on with their parents…. in this whole thing, I only feel bad for all the children involved (and that one laundromat owner 😭)

Metal_detector [OP]The ReporterOctober 1, 2024

Right??

Sidenote. You just reminded me of this. In the first article I posted about this duo, it was said that the eldest daughter was from Jeans prior marriage. It was incorrect. It was from HIS first marriage. Not Jeans.

It was such a wild ride, and yes. He gives me scary unhinged vibes.

This has once again a shown that many TIFs are usually dealing with some extreme trauma, while most TIMs are fetishists or all around deeply troubled people.

Both are mentally ill as hell. And I hope those children and the laundromat owner are doing well. I once again blocked out the children’s names out of respect for who they were as children and so this aspect of their past doesn’t come to bite them as adults. They deserve that respect.

faerieberryOctober 1, 2024

Oh right I remember it said that about the first kid! I do feel bad for Jean for going through so much, but she also continued the cycle of abuse, just in a different way…

Thank you for blocking the children’s names! They don’t deserve to be linked to this

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RusticTroglodyteOliver Twist MuppetOctober 1, 2024

Lol@his misfortune.

Metal_detector [OP]The ReporterOctober 1, 2024(Edited October 1, 2024)

Right??? I wish that Jean had gotten the trauma therapy she desperately needed. I hope the children were able to get away and grow up and find peace and healing.