42 comments

AlectoMarch 20, 2022

Serious question: do we think that the ability to easily photoshop your own images has led to the explosion of idiot men insisting they pass as female? I used to believe that it was just your average male narcissism but this can't be helping.

IrishTheFrenchie [OP]non-cis logicMarch 20, 2022

Soooo many of them post actual unfiltered pics of them in too tight, revealing clothing that no, I think they are delusional and actually think they are that good looking.

Studies show that women think less of their own looks and men think more of their own looks than neutral observers would rate them.

A solid 6 male would rate himself an 8.

A solid 6 female would rate herself a 4.

MoonpriestessMarch 20, 2022

While being narcissistic is a huge part of it, I'm convinced it's also a power-trip. These are always ugly, creepy guys. In real life, they're losers that women wouldn't date.

Having their cringe photos called 'beautiful', 'brave', and 'stunning' and women defend them on the internet while they are being openly misogynistic... they must be completely convinced of their own superiority and women's stupidity.

bellatrixbellsBoobatrixRexMarch 20, 2022

I keep saying, the other day someone posted a reddit thing from this Asian TIM and he kept uploading both selfies and self portraits. The self portraits were of some tween anime girl dressed like him with a similar haircut. It was like he actually saw himself that way. Very strange.

IrishTheFrenchie [OP]non-cis logicMarch 21, 2022

It’s like men have beer goggles on whenever they look in the mirror. 😂

bellatrixbellsBoobatrixRexMarch 21, 2022

HAHAHAH

AlectoMarch 20, 2022

My original hypothesis, AGPs are stupid narcissists, seems to have been the correct one, then.

histri0nicMarch 20, 2022

Face App has been a disaster for the human race

TheCampusTerfMarch 20, 2022

It’s why I don’t have social media. My body dysmorhia is bad enough as is, I don’t need to compare it it a tuned up version of myself and others.

IridescenceMarch 20, 2022

Some of them, definitely. I quite often see 'do I pass?' pictures where the face is clearly airbrushed to hell, the whole thing looks like it's been painted over lol.

kassandraMarch 21, 2022

oh yeah, "Katy" Katy Perry wanna be Montgomery aka our pal Monty tried to show a picture of him wearing a fuckton of makeup and photoshopped and when you zoom in you can CLEARLY tell both is going on. I was banned from twitter on international women's day I suspect partially from pointing that out and calling Monty a guy 😂

bellatrixbellsBoobatrixRexMarch 20, 2022
[Deleted]March 20, 2022

If you’re going to use that many filters, isn’t it easier to just post a photo of someone else?

GenderHereticMarch 20, 2022

I thought it was a photo of someone else.

kassandraMarch 21, 2022

I think it is

overanddoneMarch 20, 2022

LOL!

bumpyjerboaMarch 20, 2022

The egregious filters are rapidly becoming an obvious tell in and of themselves. My Nigel saw the insta post while looking over my shoulder and said "ew, who is that man?" 😂

IrishTheFrenchie [OP]non-cis logicMarch 20, 2022

LOLOLOL

I showed my 13yo son a pic of "Lia" Thomas in a women's bathing suit and asked if it was a man or woman. He gave me the side eye before saying, "man".

butchpleaseMarch 20, 2022

Good Nigel

hellamomzillaMarch 20, 2022

That is hilarious. He's really gone to seed.

Even his Berkeley contact page picture is showing his decline and is far more in-line with what a woman would do instead of the weird-o glamour shot he used to have.

https://english.berkeley.edu/profiles/386

I find his final statement both grasping and crazy:

When people refer to me, they use the pronouns "she," "her," and "hers."

Ok, Joseph.

IridescenceMarch 20, 2022

Looks like a classic head-tilt posture lol

KissMyOvariesMarch 21, 2022

Post this on r/ Instagram reality and see just how fast you get banned!!!

lemonberrylesbianMarch 20, 2022

No surprise. Its not just TIMs that do this but tons of women do it as well. Hardly anything is real on Instagram anymore.

EavaMarch 20, 2022

I got a haircut a few days ago and my stylist was telling me people are coming in asking for colors that just can't be achieved. When he tells them there is no product he can use to do what they want, they say they saw someone on Instagram with that color. He said, "You'd think the didn't know about filters!"

IrishTheFrenchie [OP]non-cis logicMarch 20, 2022

People go to PLASTIC SURGEONS and ask to look like they do with IG filters on.

bellatrixbellsBoobatrixRexMarch 20, 2022

I swear to God I think some people would enter the Matrix willingly just so they can become their avatar.

IrishTheFrenchie [OP]non-cis logicMarch 21, 2022

Isn't that what the whole NFT thing is about??? Creating a fake world for this very thing?

bellatrixbellsBoobatrixRexMarch 21, 2022

I'm not sure what NFT means ?

kassandraMarch 21, 2022

its weird, pointless online art or something? idk its for rich people lol

bellatrixbellsBoobatrixRexMarch 21, 2022

Lol !!

shewolfoffranceMarch 20, 2022

Oh my god, he's starting to look like Penguin.

proudcatladysubtle standoffishnessMarch 21, 2022(Edited March 21, 2022)

I can’t unsee it 😂

GenderHereticMarch 20, 2022(Edited March 20, 2022)

#TIMstagramreality

Or possibly just good old catfishing, I can't even tell anymore

[Deleted]March 20, 2022

My favourite part of this is that the photo on the left is posted to Instagram with a caption noting that he has photoshopped his... hair. His hair. Just his hair. No, really:

yes, the hair is ~mildly photoshopped~

Joe. Just because there are a handful of terven idly bemused by how much money you publicly brag about blowing on hideous designer clothing while you claim to be a bona fide commie or w/e doesn't mean we're all utterly fucking blind.

MikanmoonMarch 20, 2022

Laugh. out. loud.

lavenderamethystMarch 21, 2022

😂😂😂

EavaMarch 20, 2022

Is this real? This can't be real. But I'm sure it is.

[Deleted]March 20, 2022

It's real but hes joking with this picture.

HollyhockMarch 20, 2022

I've seen other pictures of Lavery during the pandemic and yes, he looks like that on the right.

[Deleted]March 20, 2022

Seriously I need the link to this. This is nuts

[Deleted]March 20, 2022

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KissMyOvariesMarch 21, 2022

TIL lavery is poly and in an open relationship. (Thanks, Instagram.)