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Need Advice or SupportWe broke up
https://ovarit.com/o/Women/103853/should-being-pro-trans-be-a-dealbreaker-in-a-relationship
We just broke up. I feel so numb and logically I know I made the right choice.
I asked him if he would allow our underage children to transition and get surgery if they wanted to and he wouldn’t answer.
I asked if he would raise our kids to think that is an identity that they could have and he said yes.
We had a few separate discussions but I told him; I’ve always been very apprehensive about having kids and that it wasn’t a dealbreaker for me being in a relationship with him but it was a dealbreaker for having kids with him. Apparently his “either or” stance on kids changed and he never told me, he thought I was warming up to the idea of kids eventually because of how I would talk about it.
I know logically that this was the choice I needed to make, for myself and for any future children I may or may not have.
But fuck it doesn’t hurt any less.