I realized today (after speedrunning getting my most recent reddit account suspended) that I no longer am at all conflicted about being labelled transphobic.
I am absolutely someone who will be labelled a "transphobe", because I believe:
women are a category defined by sex, not a feeling or "appreciation of beauty"
men telling women what to do is something I have no interest in entertaining, in my personal life but especially in the online spaces I choose to visit in my free time
the people who seek to control womens' spaces in order to force them to be "inclusive" are the sort of people I would happily fight against to the point of being burned at the stake. They're witch finders, cowards, bullies, and universally unlikeable people who have turned to this as a means of feeling powerful.
I'm so glad ovarit exists, I'm so glad I can scrawl this message out and have other women read it. I'm so tired of the endless policing and the empowerment of bullies.