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Need Advice or SupportPressured into sending nude photos, I could really use some support right now.
Posted April 16, 2021 by iamovarit in Women

Hey everyone I don’t know if this is the right place to be posting this but here is where I feel my safest and I just need to surrounded by other women right now. These past few days have been very lonely for me, so I started chatting with some people I know irl just wanted to talk to someone, out of everyone 2 guys pressured me into sending nudes, the first guy I’ll call John he was the most persistent. Our convo started out normal just about life, towards the end he became very flirtatious with me.. I have an extremely hard time saying no (women are always expected to be passive Im a victim to this) He kept pressuring me telling me he’d be the only one to see them, here’s where I start to hate myself. I almost gave in. I told myself “he was being nice to you, are you really going to turn him down?”.. I was so close to sending them even though I had a sick feeling in my stomach. I hate myself so much I hate how I crave male validation I hate that I almost gave my body away when I wasn’t ready to I can’t stop crying I feel disgusted shameful and used, Please anyone how do I find my power to tell men NO. Please help me. I also want to clarify that I haven’t sent anything I just felt that I was obligated to that I owed these men something and I want to stop feeling like that.

14 comments

blibberinghumdingerJuly 19, 2024

This guy: chemically castrates himself by taking testosterone blocking drugs, treats penis like a clitoris during masturbation when it's not a clitoris, also isn't female

Also this guy: why can't I have a female orgasm? 😢

FeministunderyrbedJuly 19, 2024

treats penis like a clitoris

He’s wanding his wand? Yeah, good luck with that.

pennygadgetJuly 20, 2024

He’s wanding his wand? Yeah, good luck with that.

He probably just smacks the wand against it like dueling swords 🤣

FeministunderyrbedJuly 20, 2024

🤦‍♀️

Dressed2K1llJuly 20, 2024

Every time a TIM can’t cum an angel gets its wings

a_shrubNon Trinary (!3/¬3)July 20, 2024

Males having female orgasms is indeed a fable.

quiggyJuly 19, 2024

There are things in this life that you cannot and can never have, and that's okay. I know this is always hard for men to accept, but it's just one of those things.

shewolfoffranceJuly 20, 2024

Men asking other men for advice on how to woman properly.

It would be better for all involved if they just went back to the fringes of society.

RusticTroglodyteOliver Twist MuppetJuly 20, 2024

Or shot themselves into the sun

JoediJuly 19, 2024

When if he gets a neo vagina, he’s still going to be orgasming (if he can) by using the re situated parts of his penis (the glans, I think) along with the penile nerves. It’s Still gonna be a penile orgasm, no matter what he calls it!

A female orgasm involves a clitoris, the muscular vaginal walls, the cervix, and other strictly female glands and nerves, none of which he has, or will ever have.

Fabled? As far as he’s concerned, it may as well be mythical! 😂

pennygadgetJuly 20, 2024

These fucking TIMs...

Bro, you didn't deflate because female orgasms are rare, mysterious things that require six hours of prep time and a magic ritual. You deflated because the fake estrogen that you're putting in your body is killing your dick

mathloverJuly 20, 2024

Tips or ideas?

  1. Stop reading or looking at any porn. Forever.

  2. Stop all the drugs. You know - the "HRT" that isn't replacing anything that's supposed to be in your body.

  3. Get a really good therapist to help you accept yourself as the male you are and will always be.

OxyToxinJuly 20, 2024

fable /fā′bəl/

noun

  1. A usually short narrative making an edifying or cautionary point and often employing as characters animals that speak and act like humans.

  2. A story about legendary persons and exploits.

  3. A falsehood; a lie.

Yeah, a male will never have a female orgasm by any definition. lol There's even a cautionary warning that trying will leave him disappointed. He should learn to appreciate things without having to possess them first.

TheChaliceIsMightierDickPocket=/=VagJuly 19, 2024

Vom