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RantMen always have to make everything all about themselves!
Posted January 3, 2024 by nopenottoday in Women

This is just a mini rant because I just saw a video about baby boxes, a resource that parents can use to drop off babies that they don't feel like they can take care of, and the whole entire comment section is just full of men whining and whining and whining as usual, making everything all about themselves! We are talking about babies who are being abandoned here! And it's still all about you? ???

Are they really so stupid that they can't understand why mothers are going to be the people using that resource the most? Do they not understand how important it is that the baby is grown inside of the mother for 9 months and she has to give birth to the baby? Dumbass are you the one giving birth to the baby??? Are you the one potentially suffering from postpartum psychosis or depression? Are you the ones who have been expected to do almost all of the child rearing for the past oh I don't know, a million years or so?

And not to mention, what about the baby? Absolutely no concern shown for the babies at all! They don't give a shit about the babies. Just like all of the anti-abortion males out there, all they care about is sticking it to women, they wouldn't care if the babies died right in front of them. I am just so sick of how men have to make everything all about themselves and how they act like they are being oppressed when everything doesn't revolve completely around them 24/7. And the worst part is, the top comment on this particular video, was a dude whining about how this resource somehow oppresses men, and the uploader of the video entertained this bullshit as if it was a valid point. But no one ever said that men couldn't use this resource, so the problem is completely imaginary anyway. And isn't that so typical, men diverting attention away from real problems that women and children face just to make everything all about their imaginary problems.

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SuperSmokio6420August 31, 2024

It really is bizarre that society is now hyper-aware of this - to the point that a man that enjoys working with children is seen as inherently suspect by some - except when it comes to trans.

Even in the "just be kind" acceptance worldview - that explains letting TIMs into women's spaces, using pronouns, etc etc,,,, but why does it extend to completely shutting your brain off and putting aside child safeguarding? Likewise with them raping women in prison. How can you be fully onboard with "Me Too" but then turn a complete blind eye when someone has a "Me too" story about a TIM?

The cognitive dissonance is truly astounding.

hellamomzillaAugust 31, 2024

I mean, is the reason the BBC keeps slipping by while supporting pedophiles because it’s a news org and no proven failures can reach the citizens? It’s outrageous.

ArtemisCitrineAugust 31, 2024
spinningintellectAugust 31, 2024

Ack! Archive link not working.

Lemon_QuicheAugust 31, 2024

It worked for me– what problem were you having?

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In 2009 eight men were convicted of running the most depraved child sex ring in Scottish history. Besides sharing the worst categories of dark web paedophile abuse, they fantasised about gaining access to a real child.

One of them, James Rennie, was trusted to babysit his godson, the child of university friends. So, starting when the boy was three months old, Rennie filmed himself sexually abusing the child then shared videos with the other men, even suggesting it would be “hotter” if they came along to join in.

Rennie, who was given a life sentence, was the head of LGBT Youth Scotland (LGBTYS), joining the charity in 1997 and becoming chief executive in 2003. Rennie’s trial heard that he often accessed his special sex ring Hotmail account “kplover” (kiddy porn lover) at work.

You’d expect the Scottish Charity Regulator to launch an inquiry to ascertain whether Rennie had access to vulnerable young people, or how being led for years by a predatory paedophile had affected office culture and safeguarding. But it did not. Nor did the police forces that had exposed the sex ring investigate LGBTYS. Both accepted its internal investigation which concluded that everything was fine.

Even more extraordinary, seven months after Rennie was jailed, BBC Children in Need decided to award, for the first time, a grant of £24,000 to LGBTYS. The charity turns down 90 per cent of good causes that apply for funding, yet money raised by BBC viewers was given to a charity whose outgoing chief executive sexually abused a baby.

Indeed Children in Need has continued to fund LGBTYS for the last 14 years, with a total of £466,000, until this week, when it abruptly terminated funding. Why? Because this month Andrew Easton, a co-author of the LGBTYS’s 2010 guidance for schools, was convicted of sharing indecent images of children as young as newborns and attempting to groom online what he thought was a 13-year-old boy but was in fact a police officer. For Children in Need this was the final straw.

In 2022 two men said they were groomed at LGBTYS around the time Rennie was chief executive. Sam Cowie, now 28, was 15 and in foster care when he was given cigarettes and alcohol by staff, then taken underage with a fake ID to clubs where he was assaulted and raped by older men. The second claims he was groomed by Rennie and one of his sex ring associates: the culture of the charity, he says, was “like a social network to connect older men with teenagers”. In response, LGBTYS suspended a staff member and has referred itself to the police.

After these revelations, at a tense board meeting in May, Children in Need’s chair of trustees, Rosie Millard, proposed LGBTYS’s funding be suspended, pending an inquiry. But then came Easton’s conviction, with the BBC charity at risk of serious reputational damage. Senior figures argued it should quietly pay the last two tranches of money in LGBTYS’s grant, rather than risk the wrath of activists by publicly defunding it. But Millard prevailed and Children in Need finally cut ties.

But even before these two recent scandals, LGBTYS raised numerous red flags. Its stated charitable purpose is to work with young people aged over 13, yet its “champions scheme” operates in 40 Scottish primary schools. Its 2017 schools guidance, funded by the Scottish government, stated that a child must be allowed to choose whichever changing room matched their gender identity. A girl upset at undressing with a male should wait until after the “trans young person is done”. Likewise on overnight trips, schools should permit a male pupil to sleep in female dorms, with no need to inform parents. This guidance, after opposition from women’s groups, was removed.

LGBTYS has also campaigned for the prescription of puberty blocking drugs (banned after the Cass review), advised girls online to bind their breasts, referred children to the trans charity Mermaids (which is now under investigation by the English Charity Commission) and demanded schools not inform parents if a child socially transitions. Extreme ideas that few Children in Need fundraisers would support.

Keeping secrets from parents, compromising children’s privacy, discussing sexuality with very young children, swerving official scrutiny even after being led by a child-rapist: LGBT charities have lately been granted a free pass on safeguarding protocols afforded to no other organisations. And many gay men are horrified. They abhor drag queen story hours where men in dresses twerk at toddlers, child drag artists performing in gay bars or little children colouring in Pride flags.

The oldest and gravest homophobic slur, the justification for Section 28, was that gay men can’t be trusted around children. This myth was rightly demolished, yet since then a collective guilt has tipped the scales the other way. Anyone who raises safeguarding concerns about LGBT groups or individuals risks being called a bigot.

I spoke to a gay man who worked at Stonewall in the early 2000s producing materials for schools. The guide for primaries said little more than that gay families exist; the one for secondary kids was about emerging teenage sexuality. But there was a mix-up and some secondary guides went to primaries. Aghast, this man offered to resign; the materials were retrieved with apologies. A gay charity dreaded being accused of sexualising children. Now, he thinks, it wouldn’t care, because no one would dare point a finger.

As another friend puts it: “We’ve gone from ‘every gay man is a paedophile’ to ‘no gay man can possibly be a paedophile’. We are no worse than other men — but neither are we any better.” True equality, he says, means being treated the same, not a free pass. Because predatory paedophiles will always look for places where silence grants them impunity, which is deadly for children and calamitous for LGBT people themselves.

spinningintellectAugust 31, 2024

Ahh, thank you. Great article.