Advice needed to get myself better

AdviceAdvice needed to get myself better

Posted March 27, 2024 by NastasyaFillipovna in Women

I have noticed that my behavior changes when I am around others wrt when I am home alone. Eg, I want a career transition and reading some material in form of PDF. So when I am with my colleagues, I get this strong urge that I am just wasting my time during lunch/other times chit chating with my them, I should take out my iPad and cover the material, and I try to do the same. Utilize every second of my time I guess.

But the problem starts when I get home. Instead of getting straight up to study, I start with SM or Netflix or other stuff. Do everything, but study.

How do I change this behavior? I want to want to study at home when I am alone as much as I want to cover the material when I am with others.

Thanks

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Posted March 27, 2024 by NastasyaFillipovna

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