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Need Advice or SupportWomen's support groups
Does anyone know of any good support groups or other resources for divorced, separated or just women getting over a bad break up? I'm having problems moving on from a decades long term relationship.
I don't have anyone really who I can talk with. Thank you in advance.
It only "functions the same" if you think vagina=hole to stick penis in.
Your inverted penis doesn't menstruate, give birth, self-lubricate, or self-clean. Vaginas don't grow hair and women don't need to get surgical "revisions" on their genitals to ensure that they urinate without pain--unless they've been subjected to female genital mutilation or have some other kind of defect.
That's the only function men think of when they imagine vaginas.
Yep, yep, yep. I've found that the best response to men who cape for post-OP TIMs and claims they're "real women because they have a vagina now" is to ask them if they have seen a TIF phalloplasty and if they consider it to be "indistinguishable" from their own penis.
Spoiler: the answer is always "no, that's not a real penis"
If they're not wounds trying to close up then why do you have to shove a rod in there daily to ensure it doesn't seal shut š¤
New logic just dropped- the muscles need training š
Erin Reed @ErinInTheMorn Ā· 1h Dilating is only required once a week or less after a while. This is not because "the wound is trying to close." It's because the muscles need to be trained to acomodate a cavity that was not there for decades.
The dehumanizing language around trans vaginas needs to stop.
Whatās dehumanizing is him comparing a surgically rearranged penis to a vagina. That is next-level misogyny.
Lmao that's not at all how muscles work. And not how vaginas work either! If I don't use my vagina it doesn't seal shut š thought there were "no differences" God I hate these dumbass freaks lmao
What muscles?
My thoughts exactly. Does he actually think his ballsack skin somehow becomes a muscles once it's pushed inside of his abdomen?
Their carved tube doesn't have any muscle other than the split made between the pubococcygeal muscle to allow a hole that men don't have.
In theory the inverted penis is supposed to turn into scar tissue and scar tissue naturally contracts. Of course in the beginning it's very much a wound, and complications are almost guaranteed. Just yesterday I saw a TIM post on reddit about developing necrosis from his castration. Obviously NSFW / NSFL: https://www.reddit.com/user/Cut3LittleBunny/
I'M NOT CLICKING THIS HOLY HELL I'M NOT CLICKING THIS.
Oh goddddddddd š¤® whyyyyyyy
TIMs accuse radfems of "stochastic terrorism" but then encourage their more gullible brethren to get mutilated. It's a sickness.
Never forget that this poster:
āPeople who say this have literally never seen a trans vaginaā. Yeah but everyone has seen a penis so actually we have.
I doubt whether men who claim that a fauxgina is the same as a vagina have ever seen a vagina. They sure haven't looked properly at one. Like, if nothing else, the smell of a fauxgina would be a clear sign that something's fishy.
(Ironically enough, just today I came across a post by a man who claimed that, surely, a punter would notice if a prostitute he was fucking had given birth to a child a couple years ago. Now, I have no expertise in gynecology, but I do consider that extremely unlikely, unless there's a cesarean section scar. I mean, I am not even confident in my own ability to be able to tell, and I at least have some idea what my own vagina, that I never squeezed a baby through, looks like, while a punter ... yeah, suuure, he will be able to tell the difference between injuries caused by birth and injuries caused by men. Riiiight.)
No way! Not from vagina at least, though there could be some telltale stretch marks or other social indicators such as her saying āI have a kidā to Sherlock.
I really can't think of anything about "neovaginas" that is the same. Not the same position on the body. Not the same microbiome. Definitely does not function the same. Not made out of the same tissue.
Really, calling it a "neovagina" is already a stretch.
Even calling a mangled penis a vagina of any sort is offensive and misogynistic. No, your surgically created frankenhole is NOT anything like a natural and complex FEMALE body part. Fuck these men and their fetid wounds.
Hahahahahaha!!!
"They function the same"
Hahahahahahaha! Well, maybe they bleed. At first. Until the wound skin heals over?
its amazing how someone who has a kid so has presumably been near a vagina has no idea what they are made of, or apparently that they have an entire uterus attached via a cervix and can push a baby out.
This. Everytime I see something like this I realize they think it is a f^*k hole and nothing more. That the vagina has no function, no specific purpose except for male pleasure.
And may I add: I am betting the holes they are comparing it to provide very little male pleasure. Which, when you think about it, after all their pain and trouble, is laughable as well.
I once read a murder mystery where the victim was ritually castrated, in an imitation of an ancient rite that intended to imitate menstruation in men.
That's what that reminds me of. There's nothing new under the sun, lol.
Wow. Blood running down their legs. āMaking a woman out of a manā
Yikes, youāre right. Nothing new.
Made up of the same parts? Wait, my vagina is made of checks notes a piece of intestine, some erectile tissue, half a glans and, er, ballskin scar tissue?
No, no I don't think so. I also think mine is self cleaning and self lubricating and it can also serve to deliver a baby.
Erin's fuckhole would tear irreparably if he took too big a dildo. Forget passing a baby there.
Fauxginas are surgical cavities constructed to give the appearance of female genitalia.They are not vaginas and the surgery is performed on men. These men are men preoperatively and postoperatively.
The comments I've seen over on r/detrans and the trans support subs disagree.
"Won't stop bleeding '
"Dehiscence"
"Can you surgically remove the granulation?"
"Smells like shit".
And so on.
Not a wound? Ok. Sure. Don't dilate for a week and tell me it's the same as mine after a few months of celibacy.
"Same parts"? Like, just human flesh? Is that what we're narrowing down "same parts" to now? Hell, my earring holes can withstand months of no earrings without closing up. It's more of a "functional" vagina than whatever experimentation they've got going on down there since you know, it's human flesh.
"The same" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I have an incision in my bellybutton from laparoscopic surgery and its difficult to even keep a hole with a depth of like 1 cm clean. You cannot convince me their surgically created wounds are not festeringā¦..
Have they not watched the procedures be done? Have they not seen the complications that arise because it is, in fact, a wound? Any sort of cutting into the body is a wound, even if it is for your man-gina.
No, because the trans lobby suppresses information about it and cancels anyone who attempts to speak about the risks.
Complete ignorance of biology over there, they are not made out of the same tissue. Vaginas are mucous membranes, an inverted penis is skin and not supposed to be made into an internal pocket.
This is just more evidence that the "female brain in the wrong body" thing is bullshit. Neovaginas are nothing like vaginas, their brain would still be distressed at having the wrong genitals even after getting the surgery.
I think "axe wound" as an insult invented by men hurled at women being hurled back at men is a very rare instance of karma that men as a sex class seldom experience for the hell they put women and girls through.
The vulva/vagina is where all men (unless born via caesarian) passed through to enter the world and it should be one of if not the most respected body part, not just a "hole" for unspeakable acts that men treat it as. The rearranged scrotum, colon, perineum, and dick tissue shoved into a cavity at the wrong angle and place on a man's body by a sociopathic surgeon deserves no such reverence or respect. It cannot come close to comparing to the body part that is the passageway into the world. And as an artificially-created hole that needs to be prodded (dilated) daily to prevent it from "losing depth" (in other words, healing), yes, it is a wound. Wounds try to heal by closing up, something vaginas do not do. We are not in danger of our vaginal canals just fusing shut, these men are in danger of their tunnels-to-nowhere doing just that. This dude is in deep denial.
It's not as much karma as just logical consequence, I think?
I mean, if men didn't view vaginas as holes, they would never be so stupid as to believe that they can artificially create one. (The TIFs with their neopeens are a rather new phenomenon, and I think if there wasn't an existing industry for transing men, women would never have gotten the idea.)
Deep denial indeed. Also deeper than his four inches deep cavity. š