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AdviceHow do I stop comparing myself with other women?
I notice if I like a guy has a girlfriend. I compare myself with her. That maybe if I had her appearance he would pay attention to me. The fact that I am black latina makes it a little more complicated. It hurts when latino men prefer white latina women. Even black latino men prefer white latina women.
I never had be fetishize for being black. And honestly I would never want that. But I had been treated implicitly several times as inferior or unattractive. I don't like that people want to touch my curly hair. I am not a toy that people can touch whenever they want.
I don't like racist comments towards me. I can understand that not everybody will get along with me. But that is not an excuse for racism. This makes me sometime to be a white woman. This would had avoided many hurtful experiences.
I admit that I feel jealous and envy towards white women. But I don't want to because any woman can be a victim of male violence. But I just can't stand their racism. I try to empathize but some of them are unbearable to deal with. They just make fun of my skin or hair texture. That is why I avoid white people in general.
Any advice can you give me?
Oh my god what a nightmare. That man needs to be eliminated.
Yeah I made the mistake of watching the youtube clip from the trial of his father watching the video of himself torturing his son on the treadmill. Don't watch it. You can hear the kid's mom sobbing in the background and it's just heartbreaking.
I don’t think my heart could take it. Even before I had kids, but now that I have my own and have to send them back to their dad 50% of the time I really don’t think I could handle that.
It's too bad sentencing guidelines in the U.S. make the only appropriate punishment for this sack of human garbage impossible.
The mother made over 100 calls to child protective services, trying to get her son away from his abuser, but his father was just allowed to torture him to death.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.insideedition.com/corey-micciolo-abuse-murder-christopher-gregor-custody%3Famp