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Ugh, I'm so sorry. One of my best friends came out as a TIF in her early 40's recently, her now ex wife was devastated. I do feel bad for them because I see all the pressure my butch wife faces. Butch women have always been hated by society at large, the tiny amount of representation lesbians have gotten in pop culture has been overwhelmingly femme. They used to be at least semi respected in LGB and liberal circles, but now so called LGBT straight allies and other lesbians are coming after her and insisting that she's a man. Now any woman with a short haircut "is obviously a trans person who hasn't had the courage to come out yet". It's gross, they just get no support.
Let's start a butch conservation society!
Having heard non lesbian trans friends make jokes about “the butch to transmasc” pipeline I can confirm that this is a big agenda for these people. It’s sad, and the Enby to transmasc pipeline is slowly getting femmes roped into it took, a gateway to transitioning. Sometimes I feel they just want all homosexual women gone.
It definitely feels like we're under attack. I think a lot of trans people have mixed feelings about their transition, and if they can convince other people to do it, it makes them feel more confident that it was a good choice. If they see butch women dressing how they want and dating who they want and living happy lives, what was the point of all their surgeries?
Oh yeah, you should see how TIMs react to me when they spot me in the wild. So much hatred 😎
I've seen this too, TIMs really hate butch women because they're spreading the idea that "womanhood" doesn't have anything to do with your costume.
There it is! They are trying to what you once explained to me as "force teaming; especially "the younglings."
This is what I witnessed on a WLW blog for 12 - 18 year olds . This was 2016. Most of them are curated by TIMs, who want to live out their "teenage girlhoods" vicariously through them. Plus indoctrination that a Lesbian can have a penis. The rest are Queer Handmaidens.
A 15 year old said she didn't like any "girly stuff ." It was suggested by TIM she might be a boy. For 3 months she was love bombed the licked. Got a lot of attention.
After 90 days she thought maybe she was a Boy. Punchline: TIM said this was a WLW blog, no Boys allowed. She needed to go to FTM blogs.
Recently on honest transgender, Huge post about, even though some TIFs started out as Lesbians, for them to be in that space, was incoherent and they were misgendering Themselves.
Bottom line, the real motivation of the post,was TIFs and Trans Masc NBs still hanging around, they were Girldick cockblocking.
Ugh, them going after teens really makes my blood boil. These girls are already being told by society at large that there's something wrong with them for not liking men, and then they're getting more of the same shit in "lesbian" spaces. I feel bad for straight girls too, they're being told that they're not even entitled to a tiny scrap of safety in their high school bathrooms and locker rooms. They're obligated to put up with continuous sexual harassment and lack of privacy. If a teenaged boy had flashed his dick in the girl's locker room when I was in school, the cops would have been called, now we're encouraging it.
It seems like more lesbians have peaked than straight/bi people, but the fact that even a single lesbian or gay man remains an "ally" blows my mind. The trans agenda is in direct opposition to us in every way! They're pushing rigid gender stereotypes, destroying all homosexual spaces, conversion therapy, and corrective rape of homosexuals. Honestly they've done a better job of ruining things like gay and lesbian bars than the far right ever could.
Mainly Gen Z and the pivot point of Millennials. I was born a Boomer pivot point: 1963 to Gen X.
The hatred for random lesbians is insane. Have personally witnessed this in social circles how TIMS feel so skeeved out/threatened when lesbians who are “cis” exist. It’s awful and unfortunate since lesbians for the most part just leave them alone or would even be sympathetic to them! But for some reason they assume we will automatically act bigoted or reject them.
I’m still grappling with the fact that maybe, just maybeeee some transgender identified females feel happy and like they made the right choice. But the nagging feeling that it’s a all a self harm MLM trying to recruit more people to make other transitioners feel better about their choices still gnaws at me.
I also know a woman in that situation with her ex wife! Idk the ex’s age, but the woman I know is around 40. It came out of nowhere apparently, like adult ROGD. Why are grown women falling into this? It boggles my mind.
A butch conservation society. Brilliant!
Yeah, it's really crazy. I can empathize more with young teens who are just figuring out their sexual orientation so they go to lesbian spaces online or irl and everyone there is telling them they're obviously trans because they don't like dresses. You'd think once someone makes it past 25 they'd have the confidence to just do whatever tf they want.
My ~40 year old TIF friend really shocked me because she had so many discussions about my butch wife about how she was proud to be butch and didn't like people assuming she was a man based on her clothing.
I've had two of my exes do this. It feels a lot like the friend I had sent to conversion therapy (she fortunately resisted).
Farewell to another fallen comrade 💔
It’s so disturbing at this point, first the butches slowly become trans, then the genderism targets the femmes into nonbinary ID. I just wish it would stop happening because I keep hearing stories of this happening in every community, it’s like a plague. Someone needs to conduct demographic research to see the numbers we are losing.
If I have to hear another "so you CAN turn lesbians straight after all"joke...
Wait people actually joke about that?! Yikes the homophobia jumped out
Yep; first thing my ex said when Page transed herself 😬
I am guessing your ex got captured by the trend as well? God I am so sorry.
Oh yeah, she's always been super woke and super queer. She - who loves men and their bodies - also tried to guilt-trip me into taking girlcock when I objected to the way TRAs have been destroying lesbian culture. 😒😒
Butches are endangered and it makes me wonder a lot about who is pushing this message to masculine lesbians. You don’t see girly gay guys becoming women at such an astounding rate. It’s like every lesbian I have met has a personal anecdote about a butch friend becoming trans or everyone in their circle becoming trans. It’s exhausting and baffling