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DiscussionHow long do you think a man can pretend to be a "good guy?"
I've been dating someone for a year. We talk about a future together, but I've heard so many absolute horror stories of men pulling the ol' switch up after moving in together, marrying, or having a child.
My ex husband tried to get shitty right after the wedding and I left temporarily and he put the mask back on. Then it slipped after children and I threatened to leave, and the mask fully came down when I quit my job to take care of the children and he really thought he had me stuck and he could do whatever he wanted. Obviously I left his ass.
I want companionship, but of course we here at ovarit know that can come at massive cost to us as women who are attracted to men. I'm not interested in being celibate for the rest of my life, so suggest that if you wish but I already know that is an option and it's not one that appeals.
So the basic question is... How long should you (realistically) vet a man?
I did, as well. They may be lost with the other captured American policy organizations, but I want them to know why they won't be getting support from me.
They won't switch back to defending women if women don't tell them we're angry at them for abandoning us.
I am shocked and horrified to see our women's organizations turn against us like this. This astroturf TRE lobby is a military-grade psy-up, just as analysts have been warning us. Liberal democracy is at war with the alt-right in cyberspace throughout the world, we just don't know it because we've never had a war like this before.
History books will be written about the part the TRE lobby played in this.
Done! "As a lifelong feminist activist, I am baffled at the absence of NOW when it comes to defending the civil rights, the human rights, of women and girls. We are oppressed on the basis of sex, not gender identity. A woman is not a feeling in a man's mind. It is the physical reality that every woman lives, every day. However "womanly" a man feels, however "girlish" he imagines himself to be, he is and will always be, a man. No amount of surgery and injected hormones will change that. Allowing men into women's sports, into women's prisons, into women's realms only works against us, while they take prizes, and receive validation and kudos for their "bravery". Poppycock. Time to speak out. Please help women and girls--we've hardly had the vote for 100 years, and sports for much less. Stand up for women's sex-based rights. "
I'm so pissed at NOW.
Everything women had to go through to launch organizations to defend our rights under patriarchy, and now that we've made them a powerhouse of our movement, they've just thrown us under the bus.
My state's chapter of NOW is pro-TQ and supporting gender identity protections.
They all are.
That's why we HAVE to tell them what women want from them.
They've been infiltrated and indoctrinated. If we don't speak up, they'll never know we are enraged.
Got it done. Tip: it might not accept "send" at first, so just leave the letter there, go do something else, come back later. Should work then.
Excellent!