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PollIs it possible to have a crush on someone without being intensely curious about them?
Posted February 22, 2025 by velvetpawsBig time in Women
  • 44%Yes
    44%Yes
  • 56%No
    56%No

97 votes

29 comments

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

No, fuckwit, “bisexual lesbian” is an oxymoron, unlike your good self, which is just a moron.

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

This comment sent me 🤣

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

Thanks! 😄

HessaHeinJuly 25, 2021

You never hear someone calling themselves a straight bisexual, hmmm...

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

Funny that!

OurLadyJuly 25, 2021

Usually it's just "pansexual" lol

gentooJuly 26, 2021

You say that, but I read an argument on Reddit last week where someone explained the existence of "bisexual lesbians" by explaining that there are also "straight bisexuals" who are "bisexuals sexualized [sic] as straight."

Checked their profile and it turns out they're a TIM. Who would've guessed.

rock-salt-radfemJuly 25, 2021

I’m dying lmaoooo 😂

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

😈

shewolfoffranceJuly 25, 2021
  1. I wish men would leave lesbians alone, and 2) I wish straight people would stop claiming to be "queer".
notyourfetishJuly 25, 2021

Me too.

And I think it says something when lesbians just want our human rights and to be left the hell alone, while males and trans "women" want to stomp all over the rights of everyone else while screeching about how "oppressed" they are.

shewolfoffranceJuly 25, 2021

I don't recall any other group of "oppressed" people demanding sex (from a demographic that adamantly does not want it, no less) as their human right.

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

Right, I think this is what helps to add to his confusion. A lot of bisexual young women do call themselves lesbian.

With everybody these days falling under the lgbtq+ alphabet soup umbrella, everybody is sort of fair game.

shewolfoffranceJuly 25, 2021

Plus there are lots of handmaiden types insisting that "plenty of lesbians love dick!"

lesbifriendsJuly 25, 2021

The Monkey’s Paw?

shewolfoffranceJuly 25, 2021

Uh-oh.

[Deleted]July 25, 2021
gingerjustsnappedJuly 25, 2021

I really wished bisexual woman would stop calling themselves lesbians while in a WLW relationship, they are the ones to blame for this fuckery and the fact that TIMs think that lesbians like their 'girldicks'.

notyourfetishJuly 25, 2021(Edited July 25, 2021)

They contribute to lesbophobia without fully understanding the harm they're doing, (Or maybe they just don't care. I can't decide) but a lesbian is a woman who is attracted to other women, not a woman who dates other women. I'll never understand why people can't grasp this basic concept when it's so easy for them to understand what a straight man is or a straight woman . . . No, I understand. It's lesbophobia.

There are also straight women who call themselves "bi" because they like kissing girls to entertain males. So much pornsickness and confusion in the world today . . . Sexuality is a biological reaction aka what turns you on. Nothing more, nothing less. These women just get off on entertaining boyfriend/husband/whatever because they saw it in a porno. They are not really attracted to women.

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

I don't think they're solely to blame, but it sure doesn't help.

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

I blame porn more.

mathloverJuly 25, 2021

Yes. This. If a woman could ever be attracted to a man (you know, born with a penis cos of his Y chromosome) she is not a lesbian. Bi, and even occasional straight, women calling themselves lesbians just gives men more ammo (as if they needed it) to think that some lesbian would actually want them and their skanky dicks.

There may be other factors involved but this is the major one.

[Deleted]July 25, 2021

Yup!

rock-salt-radfemJuly 25, 2021(Edited July 25, 2021)

Exactly, there’s a perfectly good word, sapphic, for women who love other women, which includes bisexuals AND lesbians.

PlainSimpleTailorJuly 25, 2021

Yep. There's a content creator I follow who is bisexual, she has only ever dated a man and a TiM, but considering she started dating him before he transitioned, but is is fine with his presentation, fake boobs and fauxgina, she is probably not fully straight. However, she calls herself gay all the time, and told a story about being hit on by a dude at a convention and not knowing how to let him know what she's not interested because she's "gay" (meaning: she was looking to date a woman at the time and was just not interested in the dude). It always irritated me to no end. Gay is not a catch-all term for "not straight". She has said she doesn't want to label her sexuality, but then calls herself gay? That has a meaning, and it means exclusively attracted to the same sex. Labeling this correctly is pretty important...

NotgonnastopJuly 25, 2021

SCREAMING INTO THE VOID THERE. IS. NO. SUCH. THING. AS. A. BISEXUAL. LESBIAN.

bumpyjerboaJuly 25, 2021

I understand why we are where we are right now but sometimes it boggles my mind that other people can't see this for the blatant fetishization that it is. This is ripped straight from porn in the '00s.

cranberrysaladJuly 25, 2021

He should ask her out then threaten her for saying no and explain her sexuality to her. Duh.

alicetwilightJuly 25, 2021

"LeSbiAn iS aN uMbReLLa tErM!!!11" Thanks to the gender idiots who parrot that nonsense now those men might be right and some of those women might not be truly homosexual females, but hets or bis just playing around. And we real lesbians will suffer even more harrassment.