So a former (former because we haven’t kept in touch very well not because we had a falling out) posted a few years back on a college alum group about how she and her husband practice consensual non consent but the agreement was no butt stuff. So he proceeds to rape her up the ass. She -could- have used the safeword but felt uncomfortable since then.
Has she left him? Nope!
And guess what? GUESS what her ass raping husband is now????!!