If there is no way to keep such a space private and secure, including by potentially screening members, how ever that would work, I don't think this is a good idea to have on a public site that is lurked on by hateful abusers and rapists. Not only would it be absolutely awful to have painful experiences appropriated and spread potentially for ridicule, but if any users shared very specific details in an attempt to find solidarity with other survivors, such information could be used to doxx already very vulnerable women.
Yes, let's not forget there are tims who go to women's groups to listen to their experiences just so they can mimic it better in their LARPing. It's not a good idea to have these things out in the open, maybe just have a general relationships type sub where people can post about red flags etc but stories about actual trauma ought to be kept to a private space.
If there is no way to keep such a space private and secure, including by potentially screening members, how ever that would work, I don't think this is a good idea to have on a public site that is lurked on by hateful abusers and rapists. Not only would it be absolutely awful to have painful experiences appropriated and spread potentially for ridicule, but if any users shared very specific details in an attempt to find solidarity with other survivors, such information could be used to doxx already very vulnerable women.
Yes, let's not forget there are tims who go to women's groups to listen to their experiences just so they can mimic it better in their LARPing. It's not a good idea to have these things out in the open, maybe just have a general relationships type sub where people can post about red flags etc but stories about actual trauma ought to be kept to a private space.