Just wondered if it might be appropriate to have separate spaces for trans widows and detransitioned women. I know /r/detrans is still going on Reddit and there are threads for trans widows on Mumsnet (though I am not sure about the relationship there between radfem mums and the admins), but I wondered if it might be nice for them to each have a supportive, pro-women space here on Ovarit. Just a suggestion :)
Totally relatable, I don't feel "good enough" for women. I've always had low self-esteem and men's standards being so much lower has made them feel safer to show interest in.
That’s a fair point, although the flip side of that is that (in general) men’s attraction is so one dimensional, whereas wlw see and appreciate so much more.