I feel like this video oversimplifies things and insinuates that women are at fault for picking the wrong guy when men are known to suddenly change at the drop of a hat and turn into complete monsters. even the gentlest manlet can turn into a violent aggressor. yes you can weed out the ones that are overtly aggressive but so many men will parade around as gentle uwu soft bois only to turn out to be downright evil.
also not that much into her and her husband considering he's a white guy who went to Vietnam and came back with a Vietnamese wife. I think he's also way older than her, so added power dynamics... I haven't watched any of her videos in months but there are too many men from my country (Germany) who go to Asian countries for sex tourism and getting a docile Asian wife stereotype because she'll be dependent on the guy for visa and money reasons.
DerpinaNovember 19, 2024(Edited November 19, 2024)
She came to germany after 3 years of LDR and after getting a place to study at a university. She was adult with a teacher job in vietnam and he was a backpack tourist.
interesting, I didn't know that. I stand corrected then. I only know her story being like "my mother sold her bike so I could go to Germany to be with him" not the student visa part.
That does cast the whole thing in a different light.
I admit that I am also wary of men with Asian or Eastern European wives by default. Cause yeah, it is a thing, and one man I met who proudly boasted of his Eastern European wife also admitted to going to brothels, so ...
Do I know nice men with Asian girlfriends? Sure. But it is different when they're roughly the same age and I know he met her in Germany while she was here for studying.
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I feel like this video oversimplifies things and insinuates that women are at fault for picking the wrong guy when men are known to suddenly change at the drop of a hat and turn into complete monsters. even the gentlest manlet can turn into a violent aggressor. yes you can weed out the ones that are overtly aggressive but so many men will parade around as gentle uwu soft bois only to turn out to be downright evil.
also not that much into her and her husband considering he's a white guy who went to Vietnam and came back with a Vietnamese wife. I think he's also way older than her, so added power dynamics... I haven't watched any of her videos in months but there are too many men from my country (Germany) who go to Asian countries for sex tourism and getting a docile Asian wife stereotype because she'll be dependent on the guy for visa and money reasons.
She came to germany after 3 years of LDR and after getting a place to study at a university. She was adult with a teacher job in vietnam and he was a backpack tourist.
interesting, I didn't know that. I stand corrected then. I only know her story being like "my mother sold her bike so I could go to Germany to be with him" not the student visa part.
That does cast the whole thing in a different light.
I admit that I am also wary of men with Asian or Eastern European wives by default. Cause yeah, it is a thing, and one man I met who proudly boasted of his Eastern European wife also admitted to going to brothels, so ...
Do I know nice men with Asian girlfriends? Sure. But it is different when they're roughly the same age and I know he met her in Germany while she was here for studying.