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Chit ChatCrush has a husband. 🤦‍♀️
Posted May 2, 2024 by [Deleted] in Lesbians

I had been trying to determine if she liked women and if she was single. I don't get crushes (feels childish calling it that but I don't have a better term) often but when I do it stays for awhile and is hard to move on from.

She's very quiet and contemplative and there's this curiosity, authenticity, and emotional intelligence to her I am really drawn to. We haven't had many long conversations, but I like her anyways, and our communication style (or perhaps personality chemistry) aligns in a way that feels rare.

I'm hoping she's happy and that he respects her. It's weirdly helped me to hear that she's in a relationship and she might even be straight. I still feel attraction and it will take awhile to unlearn the angle I'm perceiving her from, in that regard. But I now at least know her boundaries, which immediately trumps any desire I have.

13 comments

hellamomzillaSeptember 30, 2024(Edited September 30, 2024)

I am constantly appalled at people who can admit the misunderstood something (not a bad trait), but then double down in hating the people who actually understood the situation because anyone who disagrees with you is evil.

Also, is she unaware she just looks like a woman with thinning hair? I continue to be hopeful that we will one day want to encourage SKEPTICISM in our younger generations.

notsofreshfeelingSeptember 30, 2024(Edited September 30, 2024)

Looks like a man to me. Pretty sure he identifies as "she."

Edit: I don't know or care enough to figure it out. This person has a trans flag in their twitter bio and identifies as "she/they" and "queer"... which, I suppose could mean, they are either a female with alopecia and some mannish features who is attracted to both sexes or other women (and the trans flag is there to signify a "non-binary" status or to support "trans rights"; or, it's a man with male pattern baldness who likes to crossdress and who is attracted to women/both.

somegenerichandleSeptember 30, 2024

I think it's a man too.

RusticTroglodyteOliver Twist MuppetOctober 1, 2024

The only reason I think it MIGHT be a woman is bc it admitted being wrong lol

somegenerichandleSeptember 30, 2024(Edited September 30, 2024)

I really avoid using the word bigots or bigotry. It's just so over used since the 2010s. I can't take it seriously anymore. Don't get me wrong, it's not a good thing, it's just lost most or it's meaning or sting.

sauvignonblahnikOctober 2, 2024

FWIW, women who have taken testosterone for about four years do grow prostate tissue. This is called prostatic metaplasia, and it looks like it happens to most (or statistically all) TIFs if they take testosterone long enough.

"All were on testosterone therapy; median duration of therapy at surgery was 4.4 years ... Microscopically, all specimens demonstrated patchy intraepithelial glandular proliferation along the basement membrane and/or nodular proliferation of prostate-type tissue within the subepithelial stroma."

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35034167/

Doesn't change the fact that they're liars though.

Carrots90October 2, 2024

……….uh………so…….?……..wait, you mean………?…………hoo boy

RNPhalaropeOctober 1, 2024

The stupid is just.... Still thinking, it's beyond words.

Carrots90October 2, 2024

My head hurts. I need to lie down

pennygadgetSeptember 30, 2024

Of course the TIF has to apologize for being wrong about prostates. Meanwhile, TIMs are still crying about their "period cramps" online. 🙄

Also, I hope she takes a trip to Gaza in order to "free Palestine". I'm sure they'll treat her like the manly dude she claims to be. 🤣

quiggySeptember 30, 2024

Unfortunately, it's half-true in the most body horror way possible.

PatitaGrisOctober 1, 2024

I used to joke during my pregnancy that having a male foetus in the uterus is the only way one human can possess both sexes anatomy. Does that count?

RusticTroglodyteOliver Twist MuppetOctober 1, 2024(Edited October 1, 2024)

LMAO 1) what's up with that cursed background pic and 2) TPAs stupidity shouldn't surprise me, yet here we are