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I had been trying to determine if she liked women and if she was single. I don't get crushes (feels childish calling it that but I don't have a better term) often but when I do it stays for awhile and is hard to move on from.
She's very quiet and contemplative and there's this curiosity, authenticity, and emotional intelligence to her I am really drawn to. We haven't had many long conversations, but I like her anyways, and our communication style (or perhaps personality chemistry) aligns in a way that feels rare.
I'm hoping she's happy and that he respects her. It's weirdly helped me to hear that she's in a relationship and she might even be straight. I still feel attraction and it will take awhile to unlearn the angle I'm perceiving her from, in that regard. But I now at least know her boundaries, which immediately trumps any desire I have.
20 MURDERERS SAY THEY ARE TRANS The Mail on Sunday13 Dec 2020 THE number of transgender murderers behind bars has doubled in the past four years, according to official figures.
Twenty killers last year told the prison authorities that they are transgender â up from nine who did so in 2016.
The Ministry of Justice figures will intensify suspicion that some violent criminals may be identifying as trans in the hope of getting better treatment in jail or being transferred to a womenâs prison. Ministers last year established a dedicated wing at Downview in Surrey â a womenâs closed category prison â for male-born prisoners who now identify as female.
It followed the scandal involving Karen White, a transgender inmate who sexually assaulted two women while on remand in New Hall womenâs prison in West Yorkshire. An event last month hosted by the Prisonersâ Advice Service heard that four inmates had since been placed in the unit â of whom three had convictions for sexual offences â but all but one has now been placed in a womenâs jail.
Prisons Minister Lucy Frazer said robust rules were in place to ensure all inmates were managed safely, adding: â We expect all prisoners t o be treated fairly, lawfully and decently, with their rights and safety properly respected.â
And at this point it doesnât matter if theyâre TIMs who commit murder or murderers who claim theyâre TIMs. They should never be allowed near women or children - or, for that matter, other men.