Mildly psycho storytime here, but hopefully I'm among friends.
I follow popular leftists on twitter (Hasan etc) and trans discourse comes up regularly, usually without context. I often click on profiles to laugh and because I think I hate myself. Usually its boring cringe, but I found this one "tomboy trans lesbian." I like the label tomboy for myself and have personally never seen a larper choose that one (only seen them try/fail butch). Anyway this larper was fit and I guess attractive if you're into a smaller muscle man with slightly more fat in the hips/ass/face and A/2 cup tits. I kept scrolling and there's tons of narc pics/tweets about being a hot tomboy dyke. I've seen it all before but it hits different when this dudes on your label.
This really pissed me off, and on some irrational lizard brain level still wildly pisses me off. I've been a lifelong gnc big homo and had some weird/harder experiences because of it, you are a creepy enabled man larping as me bc 4 boobahs oops pp got too hard. Stay tf off these terms/out of our sexuality, same old shit, rant over. Situations not getting any better anytime soon, so I'm trying to channel this into something positive/productive.
I've been needing to get fit again because its supposed to improve your mental health and relationship status, but I'm generally lazy. LOL not anymore. I've always been too scared to try lifting weights. LOL not anymore. Its been 4 weeks now of mindful eating/protein and regular gym hitting/lifting. I'm skinnyfat now, but determined to undeniably, by all accounts, absolutely out-chad this twitter guy and all the nasty larpers by the summer. I'm one of those tall, broad shouldered, husky voiced freaks who puts on muscle more easily, so I'm confident I can. I also want a girl to lick my future washboard abs on her way down. Wish me luck to invalidate a trans girl!
Oh god I feel this. I’m a gnc lesbian, also into fitness. I need men to stop fucking taking my identity, appearance, and hobbies and treating them like a fetish or costume. If any of y’all have ever been on r/flexinlesbians this shit is alllll over there. Not a huge surprise since it’s Reddit I guess, but ugh.
jesus, I just looked at it. That dude in the Korra cosplay is so gross. “sometimes trans (and plenty of other people too) have facial hair, and that doesn’t make them men, thanks.” No but your XY chromosomes do :))
Men with facial hair are uwu valid women; but when I have facial hair suddenly it’s “are you a trans man? Are you going on T? Are you non-binary?”
Good grief
Every single group I’ve been in on Facebook or Reddit for women’s fitness (including all sexuality groups and butch or lesbian groups) has had these losers in it. It makes me feel a bit sick- I know men are people and blah blah but the look of almost all men’s bodies makes me feel so unwell. I hate the shapes of their torsos, their feet, their faces. To see these weirdos in women’s groups showing off their 19 inch biceps to a group of actual women who have only just in recent history been allowed to exercise, some of whom have been or are still actively banned by their governments to play sport, to women like myself who have been sexually assaulted by men, and part of that drive to become stronger is to protect ourselves from them. To see them posting photos of their guts to show “estrogen changes everything girls!” When their self induced hormone disorder in their male bodies is nothing to do with women. I just cannot stand it! See also: TIFs in women’s fitness Facebook groups boasting about their muscle gains since taking testosterone. Don’t you feel invalid posting in a women’s space, girls?
Okay wow. Are these losers so horny/delusional (and everyone else so silent/dumb) they believe their muscles are actually impressive to a bunch of women who never had balls pumping 24/7 roids for them? Or do they know its all bullshit and literally just enjoy dunking on women? Huge lmao at the TIFs, that was initially shocking but I guess not really bc its an actively recruiting cult right? Fuck this timeline lol. Agree with everything else you said. Was also raped by a rando in college and the ability to maybe defend myself is another motivator I wasn't going to mention. If I can physically intimidate these freaks that would be cool too but they'll probably just get hard.
I'm one of those tall, broad shouldered, husky voiced freaks who puts on muscle more easily, so I'm confident I can.
Hi, my DMs are open 😏😉😻
Good luck on the gainz!! Love how your turning the frustration into focus. 🏋🏾♀️
This made me laugh! Thanks 🙏
np, this place (mirroring our online/irl situation) is overall quite depressing
I love your attitude. Using this BS to improve your life and fitness is the best possible way to make use of the aggro.
Do it! Weight lifting is great for women and crucial to bone health as we get older, so there are no downsides. Well, there's one downside, which is that most of the machines are scaled to men and I don't fit safely in half of them, so it's a good thing I don't really need the calf raise machine.
hell yeah, fuck osteoporosis and sexist weight machines!