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ventjust need to complain :)
I’m not sure if this is the right place but i just need to get it off my chest tbh.
I’m a young lesbian and since december 2021 i’ve been talking to this girl on instagram. she lives across the world from me but she’s one of the kindest and funniest and most beautiful people i have ever met. she’s very verbally affectionate and calls me “babe” like CONSTANTLY and will tell me how important i am to her and how beautiful i am, and obviously i’ve really liked her this entire time but never said anything bc i don’t really think i’m into long distance relationships.
anyway recently i found out she’s been dating this girl (who’s a tif, which is weird bc my friend is a radfem) since JANUARY and has never mentioned her to me. but now she genuinely won’t shut up about how wonderful she is and how in love they are and will tell me about sexual encounters they have. also the girl she’s dating absolutely hates me even though i’ve never spoken to her and my friend will tell me about things she’s said about me which genuinely make me feel worse than anything.
obviously i want to be a good friend and listen and be exited for her but it just makes me feel sick, so i told her how i felt and we’re still friends and she told me she’d stop talking about the tif if it made me feel bad. but things have just changed between us now and it feels so different. i hate it more than anything because i’m a complete loser and i’ve never had many friends and i feel like i’ve just ruined my friendship with the only person i ever felt truly cared about me.
idk i just genuinely feel so awful and i have no idea what to do, thank you for reading if you did :))))
congratulations my sister. you ARE strong. please keep telling yourself that every single day. it is important with any health recovery to remind yourself how strong you are. you can do anything. if you ever need to talk to someone please message me. my mum went through melanoma and is in remission now and positive thinking is something that helped her (and i, but my worries were minimal compared to hers) so much (as well as conventional treatment of course). i'm so happy for you. you never realise the true "weight" of cancer until it happens to you or someone super close to you.
Congratulations, that is truly wonderful news! I am so happy for you. I wish the very best going forward!
YES! Congratulations. I did a huge smile when I read your post. Here’s to life 🎉
Congratulations!
You definitely built up some serious karma dealing with shitty stuff this year but I bet next year will be awesome to make up for it ❤️
Congratulations! What a relief it must be. And definitely give yourself credit for getting through it all, don't do yourself down.
Love this for you. Being cancer free and choosing not to diminish yourself.
I'm really happy for you. And you're right, you're absolutely strong. What you went through was hard but you came out the other side, here's to better days!
Congratulations!!! Sending love and joy your way. Let your confidence burst forth ❤
Oh this is just wonderful news!!! I am but an internet stranger, but I am SO happy you are on this earth and this battle is over ❤️
CONGRATULATIONS!! I hope the next year brings you the opposite- relaxation, opportunities and lots and lots of good health. What a feat, I am really happy for you and your loved ones. ❤️
Congrats on being cancer free! I'm sorry you had to lose your ovary, though. My mother had breast cancer and got one breast removed and a big chunk taken out of the other one. She's alive but it was hard on her to have to lose her breast. Surviving cancer is extremely hard and I have so much respect for any woman who beats it. And yes you shouldn't sell yourself short -- you got a tumor taken out so you're right to be proud of yourself!
Thank you so much! I have deep empathy for your mom! I wish her good health and more life <3 It truly is a bizarre experience…something that I used to ground myself was just saying that they can never take ME away from me… I’m not my ovaries or my hair, or any physical part of me…I am my wholeness as expressed through my light and my voice/thoughts, which can never be taken from me.
Yes, you're very strong to go through that. It's amazing you have a strong spirit though, not everyone is as tough! Good luck and I wish you the best, too!